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Author:  Descended [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 11:36 pm ]
Post subject:  I want to start with all of this, but I'm having som trouble
Well, basically this is my story. I'll keep it short. I've gotten all my girls off the internet and I'm not pleased with that anymore. I think the best women need to be obtained from the real world but I have a really hard time getting comfterable with the idea of approaching complete strangers.

I should probably stick to warm approaches, but my social circle doesn't have any prospects so I want to go out during the day time and my cold approaches. I think I should try the "newbie" mission and just say Hi.

I have confidence in some areas of my life, like with my academic performance and my athlethic performance. But I'm stuck with the idea that people will be bothered if I talk to them.

How should I get over this so I can start my journey to master PUA?
Author:  Wagon [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to start with all of this, but I'm having som trouble
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How should I get over this so I can start my journey
Getting over limiting beliefs about being social is a process, it's not something you get out of the way before developing charisma, it goes hand in hand with developing your skills. As you practice talking to other people and connecting with them, you will see first hand that your beliefs about people's reactions to being approached in a friendly way are false, and that many (generally any well adjusted person) people are happy to be friendly in return.

That's really how you bust any limiting belief, you see for yourself in practice that what you thought was the case is not, this new found knowledge the forms the basis of confidence about what you've learned.

So in short, go out and start talking to people. Saying hi to strangers as you're out and about it a great way to get started, follow that up with some basic small talk and you'll be well on your way.

Good luck man
Author:  $uave [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:44 am ]
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The only thing I can say, you gotta get out of your comfort zone- gotta challenge yourself. At first I would just stop thinking and do it just to do it.

ABOUT BOTHERING OTHER PEOPLE

One day after a quick number close girl thanked me for approaching her, and said that she was really glad that I came up to her.(This was a daygame) and I felt that what I'm doing is good. People really get bored throughout the day and meeting someone new, energetic and interesting feels great to them. But this all requires you stepping out of your comfort zone.

Now I'm breakdancing a little and I'm gonna expose my limited bboying skills toa 1000 people audience in a few months. I can choose not to, but I'll do it, to challenge myself. And this would be a good DHV story by the way ;)

One of the basic ideas in Pu for a long time was Demonstrating higher value. What I came to, is that the best way to demonstrate a higher value is to have some. And nothing makes you more proud of yourself, than overcoming your fears, or whatever difficulties you have.

Try getting out of your bed and start approaching.
Author:  Mapex [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:03 am ]
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I like what Rustam said.

Im new to this also, still trying to figure this out. and i agree with trying to confront your fears. I hate flying(fucking traffies me) but i will be taking Sky Diving lessons this summer to over come them(what better way than jumping from one lol!)

Just keep with it, there is not such thing as failure, your always learning.
Author:  $uave [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:58 am ]
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@Mapex

Dude I have fear of big heights, andd I'm going to jump from an airplane with an instructor when it gets warmer lol)))
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