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Author:  Apocalyptica [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  How to deal with PASSIVE and extremely INTROVERT girls?
I've been meeting up with this kind of girls but find it very hard to get anywhere. My best shot was 2 months, kind of being together. Now again i'm dating this kind of girls, again shes from Eastern-Europe. Pretty much all of this "type" was originating from Eastern Europe Countries, being very CLOSED, introvert, passive and insecure. (but smoking hot hb9/hb10)

Problem boils down to not receiving any signal. They let you do all the work, will never initiate, and there social live is pretty much inexistant. In one particular case the girl was lying in bed all day watching movies. She didnt even had her own brother on facebook out of resistance to add him. She never called or texted anybody: always waiting for the others to do it.

How to handle in such a case? I was thinking in the lines of being more nice and gentle, but then you are stuck with the friend zone..

In my opinion they tend to be scared and stressed of whats going on in the "mad world" and need kind of protection.. but its hard not to be her 'friend' then.

any opinions?
thanks
Peace
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Author:  TheJ [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:02 pm ]
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This may not be what you are looking for but... why do you want to get anywhere with someone like that? If this your idea of a attractive, independent and stimulating girl? What value are they bringing to the table?

Looks are not good enough, look for more quality women.
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:12 pm ]
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The story changes if i add all of those girls tend to be EXTREMELY HOT. HB 9 or 10.

Added to the initial post too.

And its not that they are no fun to hangout with in most cases. They just don't open up emotionally and are passive in communication when not seeing eacother.
Author:  Apocalyptica [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:37 pm ]
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Found this:

http://introvertzone.com/love-and-the-introvert
Author:  TheJ [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 8:41 pm ]
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The story changes if i add all of those girls tend to be EXTREMELY HOT. HB 9 or 10.
It doesn't change anything. There is plenty of intellectualy stimulating 9s and 10s out there. A 10 with a shit personality is perhaps a 7 in my book.

If you insist on pursuing these types of girls then you have to live with this side of their personality. You won't be able to change them. Perhaps with patience they will open up, perhaps they won't. Build attraction, build confort and build complience. Don't confront them, shy people rarely react well to that and hope for the best.
Author:  $uave [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:09 am ]
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being kinda shy isn't a bad thing. I actually like the girls who are playing hard to get. Thatt makes the whole process much more interesting...the idea of challenge. And how it feels, when you overcame the challenge, the difference in how she treats you now, and when you first met her...man I've never had a better feeling. + most of the time, these shy girls turnout to have a great personality, and actually might be very interesting people. You just need to give this flower a time to blossom ;)

I know only one girl from Eastern Europe, and she also is kinda shuy in regards to relationship, although she has a lot of friends.

I personally like more asian girls,(the ones from asia, not asian americans). They're pretty shy too(although this changes, after they spent some reasonable time in US)
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