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| Author: | btp32 [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to approach the seemingly ungettable set of girls? |
I was at a club the other night. These two gorgeous girls (probably the hottest in the club) were dancing by themselves (very sexually, but didnt give off a lesbian vibe). They were denying guy after guy, and it was obvious every guy that walked by them wanted them and the girls knew it. I am a fairly attractive guy, I am normally pretty good with girls and never really had any issues getting them. However I was over my head and way intimidated with this set of girls. To them, I was just another chump trying to get in their pants. My friends I was with who are good looking, in shape and normally have success with girls, were shut down right away. Is there a way to approach girls like this and actually have them gain interest. Keep in mind, they did not stop dancing for as long as they were in my sight. |
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| Author: | Nines&Dimes [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 3:46 am ] |
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Well first off, there's no need to be intimidated, they are just girls and you need to view them as no better than anyone else. One thing is di not put them on a pedalstal or give them too much attention. Give them some looks, but nothing too obvious. Try to find less attractive girls near and around them to dance with. This will help you get more comfortable as you can use them as a warm up set. And this also helps you to build some social value and makes it so you don't look like some guy who's only chasing the hotties. Just dance friendly with these girls and maybe talk to them a little. Every once in awhile maybe give the HB's a glance and see if they have taken notice of you. Then when you feel ready to approach the girls you could go over to them and say something like "Hey ladies, I noticed you guys are dancing alone, anti-social are we?" I feel this is a good opener for dimes, because you aren't running game to them, but instead are criticizing them and challenging their social skills. They may take to this approach because you've already established yourself as being social by dancing with other girls and it gives you an upperhand on them. HB's like to be challenged. Your next line could be to say "You guys look like you need someone cool to dance, spice up the night, and have a good time with." Then you could hold out your hand to the girl your least interested in and see if she takes to it. This is to build some competition for you attention. If neither one of them seems interested then your next move could be to say something like "Well ladies, you're missing out, but if you change your minds, come and find me and if I'm not busy, maybe I'll dance with you." Then just move on and continue dancing with friends and other girls. Hope you find this helpful. |
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| Author: | $uave [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 4:44 pm ] |
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I liked the warm-up set idea. Probably dancing with several different girls near them, and having fun with a lot of people will bring you a good social value, you should look for some dance game material, I'm also interested in this topic, and I've heard of some PUAs who are very good at it. Hope they're on this forum. |
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