I met a girl at university couple of months ago and took her out on a couple of dates. It never got further than my taking her out and kissing goodnight. This wasn't unintentional, I was just enjoying myself and getting to know her. And she was something of a, "shy girl," not that type you'd neg and tease too much until there was a lot of comfort. At some stage she decided like she felt the need to say that she wasn't feeling, "it," and didn't know if it was a good idea for us to carry on going on dates.
This somewhat suprised me, I don't know why she felt the need to say it. As far as I know I didn't give off any, "I'm looking for a LTR," vibes. But I was cool with it, I didn't really do anything to create attraction and wasn't trying. I told her that's fine, we won't try to be friends but we'll be friendly if we run into one another.
Now I'd like to see her again. But this time create some attraction and get a little action. I've texted her asking if she'd be open to meeting up and she said, "Sure, purely as friends, I don't see why not
" Is creating attraction a possibility here? If so, how do you go about that? I was thinking of having her around for film and pizza some time and see what I can do. Or should I resign to the fact that, "purely as friends," means exactly what it says and that it won't go further?