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Author:  fontinella [ Tue Jan 04, 2011 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Playing hard to get

Ok so there is this girl at work I'm trying to get to know. I know about not gaming at work please spare me. I've gotten the eye contact done kino been playful all to good resulsts. We almost never see each other alone so I decided to email her telling her to text me her number.
She responded saying she doesn't have a personal line at work.
The next day I sarcastically emailed I knew you went to college but WOW you are so smart, too smart for me.
She responded haha what number are you referring to?
I then emailed back saying she plays hard to get a little too much.
She then responded LOL why do you want my number, I don't just give it out for any reason.
So this girl likes me I already know, she emails me back first thing in the morning when she gets into the office, we work different shifts with an overlap. She is trying to get me to jump through her hoops and i dont wanna even respond back to her. I'm thinking just stop the email and let it go semi-cold, see if she comes back. Or I could just go direct, tell her she knows exactly why I want her number, cuz I WANT HER! in person.
What do you guys think?

Author:  LD [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 8:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Playing hard to get

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Ok so there is this girl at work I'm trying to get to know. I know about not gaming at work please spare me. I've gotten the eye contact done kino been playful all to good resulsts. We almost never see each other alone so I decided to email her telling her to text me her number.
She responded saying she doesn't have a personal line at work.
The next day I sarcastically emailed I knew you went to college but WOW you are so smart, too smart for me.
She responded haha what number are you referring to?
I then emailed back saying she plays hard to get a little too much.
She then responded LOL why do you want my number, I don't just give it out for any reason.
So this girl likes me I already know, she emails me back first thing in the morning when she gets into the office, we work different shifts with an overlap. She is trying to get me to jump through her hoops and i dont wanna even respond back to her. I'm thinking just stop the email and let it go semi-cold, see if she comes back. Or I could just go direct, tell her she knows exactly why I want her number, cuz I WANT HER! in person.
What do you guys think?
Hi man!

Ok, so you met her, you talked to her and now you guys are emailing. Great! There is mutual interest! In my eyes, she is asking you to be a man and go for what you want. I think you are right, she wants you to jump her hoop, she wants to see if you are for real.

I would email her back, and tell her that i want her number so we could meet up, get to know each other better and have some fun. or just plain: i want your number so we can meet, because i want to get to know you better.

Leaving her cold... i dont think its the time yet actually. I think there is still a big chance that she will leave you cold as well and believe me, its gonna sting harder at your side then at hers.

You was about to enter the field of playing games. Timing is of the essence. And are you prepared for the downside of playing games?

In the end, its your choice what you do, but i strongly advice against playing cold at this moment.

ciao!

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Playing hard to get

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I would email her back, and tell her that i want her number so we could meet up, get to know each other better and have some fun. or just plain: i want your number so we can meet, because i want to get to know you better.
Yes.

Extra points for

Saying that you can't keep having her making eyes at you all the time without one of you actually doing something about it ;-)

Author:  fontinella [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 6:21 pm ]
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Well its too late, I've been keeping it to just, hi! the last couple days, (last email on monday) not really completely cold though since we rarely talk to each other or see each other anyway. I don't wanna respond cuz she knows exactly why i wanted her number, though she is a church going non drinking 21 year old who spends alot of time at home and with family.
I'd preffer to just tell her I want her straight up in person though, don't wanna email. But thanx for the opinions, looking back I should have responded back and kept playing, its just I'm a more direct and natural type. Don't like playing games. Although she has been breaking her neck when she walks past my desk the last couple days. :lol:

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