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| Author: | $uave [ Tue Jan 04, 2011 4:24 pm ] |
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What do you do if girl seems to be relationship-material? do you just go the same, try to f-close on day 2 and then what??? |
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| Author: | $uave [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:21 am ] |
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anybody? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:46 am ] |
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Don't do anything different initially. See her infrequently at the outset, and then you can slowly spend more time with her as you guys get more comfortable with each other and lean more about one another. You can't actually KNOW she's "relationship material" until you've actually been seeing her a few months anyway. If you try and commit and/or make her commit too early, you can easily scare her away or make her feel pressured. If you commit slightly too little, she's only going to chase you MORE. So, it's win-win if you commit slightly LESS than you think you should. About closing, many guys make the mistake that, since she's "relationship material" and "not that kind of girl" he'll "take it slow" to "respect her." That's a recipe for getting friend zoned. You must be the guy she wants to FUCK before being the guy she wants to date. You can maybe get away with waiting one extra date before sleeping with her, but you must always be building sexual tension the whole time, and make sure you don't get past seeing her 3, 4 times MAX without fucking. |
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| Author: | $uave [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 5:34 pm ] |
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thanks blondguy, Any material on sexual tension? As far as I understand it is kino, complience and changing disscussion topics to more sexual. P.S. I find it difficult to kino escalate...especially in a day game, since there are usually many people arouind when I'm approaching.('m talking about more sexual kino escalation, not just some thumbs wrestling.) Any advise? |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 5:48 pm ] |
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I usually f-close within day 1 or 2, the latest would be day 3. If the girl wouldn't have sex with me by day 3, obviously I did something wrong and didn't build enough attraction, I would just move on or freeze her out for a month or so then retry. As for how to escalate during day game, it's fairly easy. You can pretend to pull her away from the grp, or someone that gonna bump into her, grab her waist or arm and pull toward you. Dont break tension, let her do it first. Make jokes, tease her while slighty touch her shoulder or thighs etc.. Once she's used to your touch, you can kino more toward sexual tension. The most easiest way is kiss test or make up some bs so you can touch her face/hair then hold eye contact, depend on how she respond you can decide if you should go for more or need to build more attraction |
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