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| Author: | arshavin23 [ Mon Jan 03, 2011 6:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Small lists of problems i have come across |
Okay so i've been reading the game by Neiul Strauss and a fair few doubts and quetions have popped up whilst reading. 1) is it bad to choose a potential target before going to the event? because there will be this super hot chick at this party i am going to on friday and im thinking she will be my target. but this sort of breaks the 3-second rule and means ill be thinking about it for lots of time... 2)When you approach a group and try to initiate conversation and you throw one or 2 openers in, you receive a negative response or are sort of ignored, what do you do? 3) If you are doing the hand squeeze test to get an IOI and she doesn't squeeze back, does that mean anything? 4) is it bad if you already know your target. like lets say i have spoken to her for a month or two, and have gone to a few parties with her. If i try ignoring her when im approaching a group and neg her, will that be any different from if she was a stranger? thanks for reading, and i would greatly appreciate any feedback asap. |
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| Author: | arshavin23 [ Mon Jan 03, 2011 9:33 am ] |
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also i am using NLP heaps recently and i think i succesfully used it on someone, over the internet.. is that possible? so like i convinced them to tell me some stuff with just typing things... |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jan 03, 2011 11:04 am ] |
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1. No. Don't worry about "rules" like that. They're just guidelines. Just don't get your hopes set on just one girl. At the party, I would make an effort to talk to everyone and just generally be social and having fun BEFORE you approach your intended target. This helps her see you in the best possible light and will help spark attraction. 2. (i) Work on your first impressions - how's your body language, tonality, posture, etc. Are you smiling? What are you opening with? (ii) If they're not into it, just move on. There's no point ploughing a set that's going nowhere 3. Not necessarily. She could still be attracted to you. Don't worry about it. Also don't squeeze to hard! 4. No. You can game girls you already know. It's called social circle game. It's actually easier than cold approach. Just watch out for getting friend zoned by not being willing to tease, break rapport, flirt, kino, or sexually escalate. DON'T NEG. Be fun, flirty and sexual. Much easier. NLP works in lots of areas, including text and speech. However a lot of patterns look really weird when written down so you have to tone it down a bit and be more subtle when you're writing. But yes, every single internet page that's trying to get you to BUY THIS EXCLUSIVE OFFER NOW is using NLP. |
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