Im with a girl that when we first met whas different, I mean, independent, going out with her friends. But she changed in the first month with me.

She told me she's obsessed, that other people annoy her because im not that people (i don't know if u understand what I say) that she onlye want to be with me and be isolated from everyone else, that she get insane and desperate when im not around. That other guys are disgusting and she don't want to talk with them or her friends and things like that. She became clingy, needy. To be honest it doesn't piss me off

What happened? is this a pattern that it can be done with other girls?

She told me and tell me all the time that im different from the other guys she met.


I don't know why is this happening.

No, she was pretty different before that, she changed a couple of weeks, when we were a couple.

If you are digging this and and want her to do this, you have a whole world of hurt and pain coming your way.

Why do you say that?

If you truly don't know and have to ask then I don't know if I can provide an adequate answer that will make any sense.

I'll try though and hope something sinks in. The reason this is not a good scenario is because she is not mature and emotionally healthy and immature and unhealthy chicks are not capable of maintaining a healthy relationship. She will be manipulative and demanding and unable to function on her own without your constant assistance and intervention.

At first you will feel like "the MAN" and her protector and her knight in shining armor. You will be flattered by her constant attention and appreciation for you being there for her.

BUT in time that will turn into an unhealthy dependence where you will need to do even the simplest of tasks for her and she will become critical and bitching that you aren't doing it right.

She will manipulate her way in between you and your friends and family because anything you do with them will take time away from her.

She will accidently "forget" to take her birth control pills and suddenly you now have an additional dependant child on your hands. Now that you are morally and legally accountable to her it will get a hundred times worse.

Eventually what was once the cuddly little sex-ktten is now man-eating saber tooth tiger who's soul purpose is to chew off your balls and suck the lifeforce out of you.

Neediness, dependance, alienation from friends/family and outside interests are ALWAYS a danger sign and a red flag of things to come whether it is from an AFC male or an AFC female.

The reason AFC females are so dangerous is they know what they are doing and they instinctively do it well and males that want to dominate and control females are the most vulnerable to them.

zomg,

you just explained what i lived through for twelve years, lol.

I would encourage her to go out and do the stuff that she enjoys, see her other friends, and generally suggest positive things that she could do outside of seeing you.

You could emphasise to her all the positive qualities you admired in her when you guys just met, and say how attractive you found the way she's really independent and outgoing, etc.

Then you could just try and be a little more busy and make sure you're not seeing her too often, so you kind of force her to fill her time when she's not seeing you.