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this girl obviously is a little insecure with herself. I'm texting her on winter break trying to get some. we are both 16 btw. so a friend who's less attractive than me and is a total afc somehow got her to be all dirty wit him. and she apparently was flirty with a couple guys last year. I definitely think she's got some interest in me. she initiates convos sometimes and wants to talk all day. and sometimes she says naughty things, but I really want this girl wanting me bad. what are some gambits, games, shit I can say to make her want me and be dirty with me. I know some of yall have mastered this. help an aspiring pua out! thanks
FRIEND ZONE ALERT !!!I'm not saying you're in it yet, but watch out with doing a lot of talking.
When I read the title of your thread, my first impression was that you want sexual escalation with a girl through texting because that doesn't make you feel uncomfortable and you can avoid rejection that way. Women love a ballsy man that's not afraid of taking his chances and being rejected once in a while.
Escalation is not going to happen via texting and I want to know why you don't want things to escalate via face to face contact. I tried texts too because it feels comfortable. You can tease her in texts once in a while but it's not gonna get things done. You better make sure that you do not want to be friends, because you're done with her if you become friends. I can give you a link to a female forum, with a thread that shows how hard it is for women to become attracted to someone they consider a friend. For many women that is impossible no matter how hot the friend is.
Here's a standard recipe for making women want you:
- Ignore them for a couple of days. Don't reply to her texts instantly but wait
- Create an image that makes you seem popular (social proof makes women want you the most! For example lots of women around you when you go out, lots of women showing interest in you, lots of female attention on facebook)
- have an exciting life with surprising events in it
- Be very confident. No " I guess.. Maybe we could hang out?.. could you.. I'm sorry.. " More like " We should hang out this evening "
- Mention how other women want you (= marketing), and change the subject if she keeps talking about herself in conversations. I hate it when a girl I consider attractive asks for my advice about other guys. That's a big friend zone alert.
- Don't give her too many compliments. Never say "you're hot!" but more like "you're oke, not bad
"- Never buy her stuff, drinks dinner gifts etc. That's like saying "I want to make sure you like me and I am willing to spend money for it". Be yourself and don't give a F about what people think about you