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| Author: | bowlie [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 12:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | too picky? |
im just starting this pua thing. at the moment ive decided to work on lifestyle, confidence, body language inner game and that stuff first instead of just learning canned lines and routines. ive been practicing my game on girls at school and i have about 3 who i think quite like me. but they arent great looking. then again neither am i. im 17 and never had a girlfriend because i set my sights too high. should i just go for it? or will it haunt me for the rest of my school life? |
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| Author: | Solteris [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 3:07 am ] |
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Hey man, welcome aboard. Dont be stressed about being too picky or not picky enough. Your 17 and never had legit experience with a woman, it's perfectly fine to hook up with a few girls that aren't the best looking you've ever seen. There's no shame in it at all. Think of it like this, you're in your developmental years. I promise you'll get alot more knowledge hooking up with some less than attractive girls over constantly aiming for the hottie in the room. Im not discouraging you from going for the hottie either, it's just that for your own benefit, getting a few notches under your belt will help your overall inner and outer game. That super babe in the room wont be so intimidating once you've been with a few girls. Alot of guys say, "Go hard or go home", but this a new lifestyle you're embarking on. I'll never discourage someone for trying to pick up a HB 9-10 and I'll even be their wingman to help them, but it's important to know where you stand experience wise. If you go from not having a girl your entire life to having a HB 10 given to you on a silver platter, that's the secret ingredient for oneitis. She'll get bored quickly from your lack of experience and you'll fall into a horrible cycle that consumes the best guys and turns them into whimpering children. By being open to a wider variety of women, those hotties aren't as scary because they aren't your ONLY source for pussy. You HAVE options. You WANT her, yet you dont NEED her. Bonus, when these girls see you with other girls all the time, it becomes a huge DHV that no story or line can come close to. Social proof. The road there can be so much fun if you take your time and enjoy it. Your young like me, we have a lifetime of making money, banging young chicks, and anything else we want to do. Study the game, study the women, and things will fall into place. You dont need to run out and grab a girlfriend right away, play the field and enjoy yourself. |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:37 am ] |
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well, there is never a problem with being 'too picky'. But chances are you've never had a girlfriend, not JUST because of your pickiness. There has definitely been something else that was getting in the way. |
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| Author: | Kads [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 3:16 am ] |
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hi, at your age, its better to "experiment" and get some experience. So being picky doesnt really help. get some experience with chicks, bang a few chicks (hot or not) and rack up your score. then you'll be in better state to know what to do next |
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