Put your arm around her at the movies. That's all you can do, that's how men have been doing it for decades... because it actually works and is low risk. Or put you hand on hers if it's on the armrest. Hate it when a girl puts down the armrest (doesn't necessarily mean anything, though).
I think your way of opening her up to sex sucks. There are guys that say it's good to be that direct and sexual, but I think it demonstrates a lack of social skills. A female friend threw it out there, point blank asked me if I wanted to have sex. It really put me off. I was just like "Uh, no thanks," which is totally shitty and not smooth of me, but it really threw me off. Here's the thing, if she had just sort of eased me into it, stroked my ego a bit and did some seductive touching, I would have gone for it.
So, the point? Ease into it, be subtle, use kino, use close contact hugs where your hips meet. For in the car I'd say initiate a hug with her across the seats, then as she pulls away and your faces are still close, hold her still a second and look her firm in the eye, make a playful grin like you just thought of something, and then move in fairly slow and kiss her, but that's me. Worst case scenario she'll immediately interrupt you when you make eye contact and you can still try for the kiss, but she might back out at this point or she'll keep her lips still and won't really kiss back. Either way, not a huge rejection and she'll know what's on your mind without having to talk it out, which eliminates all the surprise and excitement, which women and sentimental old men enjoy.
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