PUA Forum :: Inbetween a pimp and a hard place..

I've cheated on her quite a few times, my girlfriend of two years that is. I couldn't help it, I'm attracted to other women. At first you could say I had a serious case of one-itis, but it slowly faded on it's own when I was fucking her friend. The problem I'm having here is letting her go. She's not very mentally stable, and I don't really know what exactly is wrong with me..

But I feel really possessive of her. Like, I could really give two shits less about being with her, but I can't see her being with anyone else. I know that sounds completely fucked up on my part, but I don't really know what the deal is.

She's boring, she doesn't keep up with me intellectually, she's not funny, she's a drag. She fucks like a maniac though.

She helped me out when I was going through a really rough time, so I feel like I owe it to her. She's a 7.5, nice body. But the girls I attract are easily 8's and 9's, but I've been slacking on my mackin for awhile (been out of the game), and I feel like a total fuck-up now. In HS I was able to just draw girls in, didn't have to do much talking or gaming at all.

How the hell do I get her away? It's not as simple as "it's over", is it..? I don't want to tell her about the other girls, because I KNOW, she'll end up going on a revenge-fuck spree.. I'm confused.

How the hell do I let her off easy..?

Author:	iSkorpion [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 3:04 am ]
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I've cheated on her quite a few times, my girlfriend of two years that is. I couldn't help it, I'm attracted to other women. At first you could say I had a serious case of one-itis, but it slowly faded on it's own when I was fucking her friend. The problem I'm having here is letting her go. She's not very mentally stable, and I don't really know what exactly is wrong with me.. But I feel really possessive of her. Like, I could really give two shits less about being with her, but I can't see her being with anyone else. I know that sounds completely fucked up on my part, but I don't really know what the deal is. She's boring, she doesn't keep up with me intellectually, she's not funny, she's a drag. She fucks like a maniac though. She helped me out when I was going through a really rough time, so I feel like I owe it to her. She's a 7.5, nice body. But the girls I attract are easily 8's and 9's, but I've been slacking on my mackin for awhile (been out of the game), and I feel like a total fuck-up now. In HS I was able to just draw girls in, didn't have to do much talking or gaming at all. How the hell do I get her away? It's not as simple as "it's over", is it..? I don't want to tell her about the other girls, because I KNOW, she'll end up going on a revenge-fuck spree.. I'm confused. How the hell do I let her off easy..?

Author:	Danzella [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 3:10 am ]
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Sounds like a tricky situation. I know where you stand when you say you can't think about her being with someone else, that's natural. Every male doesn't like the thought of their ex girlfriend being with someone else, even if they have no feelings for them. If you're cheating on her and you don't enjoy the time you spend together, then I'd leave. Let her down gently, tell her that it's not working out and you don't feel that "spark" between the two of you anymore, tell her you're sorry and then walk away and avoid contact. Breaking up with someone is never easy, but it's better to do it sooner rather than later. I think the fact that she helped you out whilst you were going through a tough time is playing a major part in you not wanting to break up with her, she helped you and it's quite normal to feel guilty about leaving someone after they've been with you and supported you, I wouldn't tell her about the other girls, if she is mentally unstable then that'll just make the situation a lot worse. Good luck man.

Author:	iSkorpion [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 3:21 am ]
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I want to be free so I can officially start my life anew as a PUA.. Thanks man, appreciate it.

Author:	MsNoca [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 12:13 pm ]
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Quote: I've cheated on her quite a few times, my girlfriend of two years that is. I couldn't help it, I'm attracted to other women. At first you could say I had a serious case of one-itis, but it slowly faded on it's own when I was fucking her friend. The problem I'm having here is letting her go. She's not very mentally stable, and I don't really know what exactly is wrong with me.. But I feel really possessive of her. Like, I could really give two shits less about being with her, but I can't see her being with anyone else. I know that sounds completely fucked up on my part, but I don't really know what the deal is. She's boring, she doesn't keep up with me intellectually, she's not funny, she's a drag. She fucks like a maniac though. She helped me out when I was going through a really rough time, so I feel like I owe it to her. She's a 7.5, nice body. But the girls I attract are easily 8's and 9's, but I've been slacking on my mackin for awhile (been out of the game), and I feel like a total fuck-up now. In HS I was able to just draw girls in, didn't have to do much talking or gaming at all. How the hell do I get her away? It's not as simple as "it's over", is it..? I don't want to tell her about the other girls, because I KNOW, she'll end up going on a revenge-fuck spree.. I'm confused. How the hell do I let her off easy..? I dont think there is a way to end the relationship " easy." You guys have shared 2 years together and a lot of emotions. Just be honest and tell her that you can not commit to her and the last thing you would want to do is to be dishonest with her so you must end things. Good Luck

Author:	iSkorpion [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 11:27 pm ]
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Thanks, I did exactly that.. Yeah she cried a bit but I comforted her.. Reminded her she's a beautiful person and what not, I guess it was ended on a good note.

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