met this guy..on the first date we went to the movies and didnt have much opportunity to talk afterwards. the same night he texted me and stressed that he wanted to see me again. in the days to come he initiated contact via text frequently and 6 days later we met again to have a drink in town. was a fun night there, but he made no move..so to reinforce that i was enjoying my time with him i stroked his leg. he didnt respond.
yikes.
i never had that before. so obviously i stopped. upon saying goodbye he stressed that he enjoyed the evening and our ways split. 1 hour later i get a text where he asks me when we can see each other again. since i still was highly caught of guard with the minor incident at the bar i made a joke out of it by asking whether i was going to fast
his response was that he approaches dating in a more step-by step way. we joked back and forth that he better be a good kisser and there were minor sexual innuendos about what should happen the next time we meet etc.. next day he texts me to find out when we could meet, so we met a few days after to meet at his place. on that evening again we had fun and everything was really comfortable but again he failed to initiate anything, there was slight cuddling but that was initiated by me and not much came back from him. after a few hrs i left to catch the last bus. the next day he texts me and thanks me for the evening and notes that time really runs fast with me..
what in gods name is going on? i know that he considers himself being a bit old fashioned in some areas and he is the opposite of a player, but this is taking it a bit over the top, or? i mean..no cuddling, kissing on date 3?? especially if he knows i am up for it? come on.. and if he really isnt interested why would he be pressing on meeting again and again etc. this one really baffles me.. [/u]
