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Author:  Xsander [ Thu Dec 23, 2010 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  NEVER Give Direct Answers or do what a Woman says

I used the DeAngelo method with sucsess, of never giving a woman a direct answer and never doing what she says, and controlling absoloutly EVERYTHING, but I found it to be an unbelievable pain in the ass. And it lead to the girl getting super pissed off a lot, but it still worked for getting sex despite that. It was like, "Is this what it takes to get laid? Crap!" So there must be an easier way to go about this.

Author:  Puaking [ Fri Dec 24, 2010 12:55 am ]
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Direct Game? I like to do that, mix it up with a little pull n pull.

Author:  greycon88 [ Sat Dec 25, 2010 5:54 pm ]
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Direct Game? I like to do that, mix it up with a little pull n pull.

"Pull and pull"

?

Author:  Jay dog [ Sat Dec 25, 2010 6:02 pm ]
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lol i ve tried it before and it is a pain in the ass, just go for the (push-pull) and it should work well, and yes you have to push sometimes

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Dec 25, 2010 7:19 pm ]
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Not giving her a straight answer the whole time should be done in a playful, flirty way, and not FOREVER. Eventually you can't keep avoiding the question and giving her C&F answers or you guys will never be able to connect on any kind of emotional level and she'll assume (i) you're a player and/or (ii) you're hiding something.

The point about not giving her every little detail as soon as she asks for it is that it builds curiosity in her and makes her emotionally invest. It also shows that you're not a pushover and won't do every little thing to please her.

But, after you've found stuff out about her, she's into you, and she honestly wants to know something about your past, for fucks sake if you've got an interesting story to tell her, TELL IT. Opening up little by little and giving her something builds an emotional connection, and she will actually value the fact that you're talking about yourself to her. It's not being a pussy at all.

Similarly, you don't have to be controlling over every single minute little detail of every interaction with her. You just have to display dominance and alpha qualities about most things. If she REALLY REALLY wants to go see a girlfriend she hasn't seen in years, for fucks sake it's ok to let her go do it, as long as it's in the context of a relationship where she respects you, you generally make the plans, and you don't move around your whole schedule to suit her.

If having fun, flirty, sexually charged interactions with a woman feels like hard work to you, you might be doing it wrong!

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