Hmm..
Let me think of some of my first dates...
I like to go to a bar where the music is not to loud. A good coffe place or a restaurant's bar with a good "vibe" and music will also do the trick.
After a drink or two, take her for a walk in a nearby plaza, or park. Works every time! I always end up with a second date
If I haven't kissed her in the park, then in the car I look straight into her eyes and say:
"I must be losing my touch"
She'll ask why.
"I've been more than x hours with a really beautiful girl, and I haven't kissed her yet!"
Sounds cheesy right? But it works!
Maybe it's the combination of being corny and cocky at the same time, maybe it's the deep look in the eyes, but it works every single time!
Anywayz,
hope it helps bro!