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| Author: | BCNPUA [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need partner for practicing small talk online via chat |
For introverts(like me) making small talk is a problem. The secret of a pleasurable conversation with a person is to keep the focus on the person and make them talk about themselves, be genuinely interested in the person, ask questions/clarifications and to dig as much as possible when you find a topic that's interested for them and they start talking with passion. I think all the PUA routines won't help, if you can't make conversation out of nothing(small talk) and effortlessly keep the flow going. Without small talk there will be many moments of awkward silence in which case she won't feel very comfortable. Small talk is the ground of deeper talk, you can't get far without it. I decided I have to master the art of small talk. I know the key points, I know the theory, I just need to practice until it comes natural and I can do it without trying to hard. I tried to look online for some game for improving conversational skills but I couldn't find any(btw suggestion are welcome). So if there is any introvert PUA that wants to practice with me, send me a PM with your MSN/Yahoo. |
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| Author: | figureitout [ Wed Dec 22, 2010 8:10 am ] |
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ou should actually hang around someone that is a good conversationlist and just let yourself learn from them. also start making phone calls to anyone..old friends, relatives etc. pm me if you want to chat. |
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| Author: | hex [ Wed Dec 22, 2010 9:31 pm ] |
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A good place to practice small talk is on sites like omegle.com. You connect to random strangers and have conversations. Most people you connect to will be idiots, but it gives you a good opportunity to talk to multiple people in a short period of time. |
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