2 reasons why a girl might ask her friend to come
A. She wants a buffer. This means there isn't enough attraction or rapport between you guys. Be more playful to build rapport.
B. She's a manic insecure and needs a friend because she's afraid of awkward moments or not knowing what to say. This means she has low esteem and you should be able to bag her even if you come dressed up as Beetle Juice.
C. She thinks you might be a sex offender. This means you tried to hard to pull off the "jerk" vibe.
About your text, stop using smileys and stop saying "haha" or "lol" so much. People are inclined to do this to come off as less threatening, lighten the mood, and qualify themselves. It's beta behavior, don't feel bad for being overtly masculine. If you're young then this might be more acceptable because you're competing with a lot more betas and a lot less alphas. As you get older, you'll notice a sharp decrease in quirky behavior from a lot of guys, they will be the ones who harvest pussy every night. Either ways, it's better if you cut out the habit.
Also, as a general rule, you should use the 2/3 rule. Always give 2/3 of what you get. you're texts should be shorter, and for every 3 times she starts a texting convo with you, you only start two convos. Conveys your higher social status to her and prevents you from wreaking of desperation. You are always the prize. You only text her more in the beginning to induce the initial attraction phase.
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