Quote: Hi I wrote some this in my introduction earlier today but i now added more to my day and i have a some questions in the second part.
So today was my first day sarging and it was awesome. i went wit a friend to a shopping mall during the day and decided to start in a book Store. The first girl i saw in there was about a 8, my friend was like "Go DO It" so i got my nerves relaxed and went for it. I failed (Although no such thing, I learnt) i did the whole debating routine "my friend and I are debating about him going to the army" She tuned around and smiled and said that she did not want to respond to that. I know my mistake Approached from the back and also i picked a very personal subject. the next girl saw was working for X Box kinect. she was demonstrating it. My friend (jono) told me what to say for this and it was amasing. i went up to her from a good angle and said "so how does it work" and responded "well it works through the depth" i stopped her and said "No, You and I" she laught and hit me on the chest softly (IOI) i responded "you cute when u blush " even though she was nt, she responded by holding her cheeks and said nooo! then she asked if i wanted to play i said yes and just fooled around with her, when i left i had to ask her name and she just responded by saying XBOX. I replied nice to meet you xbox im luc. she laught and that was that. i was so happy bout how it went though even though i got no number. o ya she was a 9.
After the mall we decided to go to a bar, it ended up being a beach party so we ended up standing out the most as they all had baggies on. as we were standing there we came up with a simple opener "Hi my friend and hav a bet going and we need your opinion on it" they reply ye sure, we asked "who has the better shirt" as My shitrt had bright pink lines going down on it and he just wore a bright yellow shirt, like really bright.
alot of the girls enjoyed this as we gave them something to discuss that was on us and notice all our point of intersest. one of the girls also ended up touching us (IOI) but she was not worth going for. one of question which i should bring up at this point is
HOW DO YOU DISABLE THE DRUNK FRIEND THAT KEEPS INTERRUPTING AND SAYING STUPID THINGS?
some of the other times we would just wait for girls to chill by us and just say hi how you doing? most of the time it worked.
At the end of the night we ended up at another bar to meet up with other mates of ours. as i was just standing there was a girl probably a 4, started hitting on me and offering to buy me drinks and touching me. my second question is
SHOULD I HAVE CARRIED ON TRYING MY NEGS ON HER AND MY TECHNIQUE JUST TO SEE HER REACTION AND FOR PRACTISE?
Thanks
Luc
Hi man!
First off, good job! Go for it amigo! you are doing good!
Just a few remarks:
There is no such thing as a bad angle for approaching. Suppose a stranger tapped you on the back and asked: hey, do you know the way to the quick-E-Mart ? Are you going to say: sorry, not going to answer that because you came at me from the wrong angle?
Nope. the point is: you have to realise that every person has his personal context and view on the world in every moment of time. In one moment, a person can be very occupied with something, the next moment it might have slipped from their focus.
So you have to realize that sometimes you will open people who are not in the mood to answer you. They are occupied, its not the right time, whatever. Realize that its just natural. In a different setting in a different time, they might have responded to you. It has nothing to do with the angle. Forget that, its rubbish. Its like telling you need 1.000000035698 grams of whipped cream for the perfect ice cream. But when you have just 1 gram, its just as good, but not perfect. Understood?
How to disable drunk friends? When they are with you, you can always try to knock them out or try to set their focus on something away from you or you yourself could try to escape. But mostly, when drunk, and they see you approaching girls, they will follow you. So next time, dont ask them to join you when you go out.
there is little point in trying to seduce somebody who you are not attracted to. Or 'practice your stuff'. Have you not noticed yet how you always know what to say to somebody you are not attracted to? that is because you dont give a fuck about the result. You see the difference? There is much more to it, but since you say you only started with PU and seduction, it doesnt apply yet. If you want to practice, then practice like it is for real. Its the only way you will learn something valuable. 'Picking up' girls you dont find attractive is like training soldiers by letting them shoot bullets in the air. They learn how to fire a gun, but that is all. Almost every person can fire a gun, but it doesnt make you a soldier. Every person can open his mouth and spout canned material at a girl, but it doesnt get you any further because you already knew how to speak and you already knew what to say.
For the rest, you will learn on you way. If you have questions, shoot!!
lots of fun and luck on your journey!
ciao
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well you can always try to know them out as well 
