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| Author: | deej3005 [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Unique situation-what to do? |
I've just started Uni, been there for a term now, and I'm in the pretty unique situatuon of never having actually kissed a girl (I'm 18 now). Basically, for the last 5/6 years of my life I've been suffering from mental illness which has restricted me socially, especially around the other sex. Now the little experience I have had with girls has given me quite a few reasons to feel confident-even though I've never really displayed 'confidence' around girls, I have tended to receive IOI's from quite a few of them. In my first term at Uni, I'm sure that I wouldn't exactly have come across as an alpha male-I was shy and slightly unsure of myself around girls, but I've still been getting clear IOI's from many girls in the college (since they don't really know me well this makes me think I must be not bad-looking). Out of these girls who are showing some interest, most of them are ugly/ boring and not really interesting to me, but there are two HBs(about a 9 and an 8.5) who, despite the fact that I would have come across as especially awkward and unconfident around them, clearly have some interest in me. But because I have no experience, I still have insecurities that almost no other guy in college would have. My confidence should be high, but I still have doubts like what if I can't kiss properly, and not really knowing what to do when. So what should I do? Should I just try and get off with any girl, because doing so just once would take away a lot of these insecurities? Is it worth 'gaming' the boring girls who are giving me IOIs just for practice, because as it is I don't have the confidence/experience/know-how to 'game' the HBs? Thanks |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 11:47 pm ] |
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Your situation is very common in a way, many people your age, who haven't been with girls, get into PUA for similar reasons to yours. The advice you will receive may be different, but my opinion: GAME, GAME, GAME all women. K close any decent girl, so that means game her too. Get rid of approach anxiety and fear of you being a bad kisser. Remember, you need to break out of your shell, so how are you going to do this? Small steps, and what I said above, can help you. It'll build your confidence too. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 10:13 am ] |
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Your situation is not that unique, I hate to break it to you! First off, Chelios is right. Game EVERYONE. Most guys on this forum would benefit more from simply making an effort to be as social as possible than reading any PUA material at all. You're in college - get out there and join shit, be part of stuff, talk to people in your classes, play sports, goto every single party you possibly can and try and have your own. This is the number ONE priority. As for the girls, absolutely game ALL of them. The ones that are 6s and not that interesting, you can still get a couple of casual lays out of which will help with your confidence. There's no shame in that at all. |
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