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Author:  holdmydrinkbitch [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Making yourself come off as more secure around women
So I went out to eat last night with two of my friends and four girls (my friend knows one of them and she brought three friends), we were all just sitting there talking and all the sudden my friend brought up his friend (for whatever reason I forgot). What I do know is that my friend thinks this guy named brad is a legend and gets layed more than any guy on the face of the planet.

So I elaborated on this for fun and told the girls that if brad had been at the table, he would have had sex with all of them.......twice. I then went on to say that if I was dating one of the girls at the table and she slept with brad I would'nt have a problem with it, because how could a girl resist? and then told them that if they slept with him it wouldnt even be considered cheating because his such a badass, infact I might even find myself in bed with brad because hes so seductive.

I think the girls responded well to this because it was funny, but also because if a guy can joke about stuff like this he must get layed a lot, because guys who don't get layed would'nt have taken the conversation in this direction, they would have just said that guy brad is full of shit he dosnt get any girls and they might have communicated a little jelousy (this is the direction I would have taken it in before I got good with girls, but now after practicing alot my style of communication is changing and I'm getting better and better with girls)

A story I tell when I'm around girls is how I love to talk shit to guys online when I'm playing Halo and one time just to creep a guy out I asked him out on a date and told him my car was broken so he was going to have to come pick me up (theres more to the story than this but thats the basis).

So do you guys think that girls respond to this stuff only because its funny or also because it makes you come off as secure with yourself?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 6:32 pm ]
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Lol,you made me laugh like hell.

Im loving it,and girls love it too.

This sought of routine,I'd call it Brad-the bad ass(lol)shows how secure you are and women just down right love it.

Years ago,or even earlier this year,I couldnt imagine saying homo-stuff to girls.

Now as Im brimming with security,I usually say to girls(in set) that Im gay.

Oh course Im not but I like to throw that in here because I know it looks good to girls.

Being able too play around like that.

Anyways,very good routine.

Im actually gonna steal that(lol).
Author:  Noah E [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 8:31 pm ]
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I have a close friend named Zach who's always throwing huge ass parties in his condo (his parents bought it like 15 years ago, it's freaken massive) and he's got a huge reputation here as the party guy/man whore, so I'm totally using this one.

He keeps doing shit like that to me so it's payback time. Example: He's talking to a girl and says "wow you're really pretty" she mustve said thanks or whatever her reaction was(loud club), but then he's like "but not as pretty as him" *points to me*

the fucker haha
Author:  ttimc [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 10:38 pm ]
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Lol,you made me laugh like hell.

Im loving it,and girls love it too.

This sought of routine,I'd call it Brad-the bad ass(lol)shows how secure you are and women just down right love it.

Years ago,or even earlier this year,I couldnt imagine saying homo-stuff to girls.

Now as Im brimming with security,I usually say to girls(in set) that Im gay.

Oh course Im not but I like to throw that in here because I know it looks good to girls.

Being able too play around like that.

Anyways,very good routine.

Im actually gonna steal that(lol).
haha nice man!

I did something similar but I'm sixteen and this is high school. anyway I got this one class with like thirty chicks and two guys (no good reason) also keep in mind that I was shy in all classes up util getting into pick up. so these 4 chicks, 2 hb8's ask if they can dress me up. ali went along with it, and thought "crap what if they think I'm gay" but Im actually pretty masculine and getting strong. so I guess it was a sign of my security? anyway, it was awesomecuz for some reason high school girls are super touchy and flirty cuz they were touching a lot and getting really close to me. definitely worth it, plus we got an inside joke now.
Author:  Chelios [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 10:46 pm ]
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Great post, and shows, if your comfortable and confident in yourself, others will feel this. Why should you care if people think your speaking weirdly? If they have a sense of humor, they'll appreciate funny sayings and stories.

I say I'm gay sometimes, as a joke! Or get asked, are you gay? I usually say how do you know? They reply "because your good looking and have no girlfriend" That's a big IOI, I then reply in a number of ways, then laugh it off. Before I k-close by saying I'll show you how gay I am, grabbed her hand, dragged her right in, went about 1 milimetre from her lips, then pulled away, got rid of all tension.

Great stuff!
Author:  Hakuna [ Wed Dec 15, 2010 10:58 pm ]
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don't just think your "pretending" to be confident, you are BECOMING more confident by saying things like that / acting that way. Action precedes thought. you'll feel it in your gut; when you do things that portray confidence and masculinity, you will become more confident.

In college I would legitimately pretend to be gay to get into female social circles. Then when they least expected it, I would release my game all at once, instantly f-close, and have them screaming in a holocaust of ecstasy in a matter of minutes.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 3:23 am ]
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@Hakuna-Good to see a knowledgable guy co-signing this post.

@Chel'-Lol,good routine with the kiss close.
Author:  holdmydrinkbitch [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 4:26 am ]
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glad you guys liked it and thanks for the feed back,

and k-loc steal away
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