The best thing you can do really is tell Terry YOU like her and have her tell you how she feels. Don't be scared it'll be fun
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| Author: | ttimc [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 9:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | does this girl like me? what should I do now?? |
hi, so obviously there's this girl I kinda have a crush on. she's in two of my classes and we talk on a regular basis. she initiates quite a bit of the conversations too. she laughs and smile at any of my jokes and is really nice. let's call the girl I like Terry and her friend is Edy. well I used to be pretty good friends with Edy, but she doesn't talk to me as much anymore. Yesterday, Edy texted me for a question and somehow I ended up asking if she was friends with Terry even though I knew they are. so she says yeah and asked if I like Terry. I got it forced out of me but she promised she wouldn't tell an would put in a good word for me. later that night, Edy texts me and says that Terry isn't sure if she likes me, but more as a friend than romantically. Edy said not to worry cuz that could change easily. she just said I should make a move and get her number and see where it goes. Terry has seemed to give some signals of liking me, so what do I do? and Edy seems kinda happy that I like Terry so it's good her best friend (Edy) likes me liking her. also, Edy texted me today saying that Terry seemed eager to know If I liked her and got kinda mad when edy didn't tell her. is that a good sign? what should I do? I was thinking get her number first and try and set up a date? please help, I'm lost! thanks |
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| Author: | Nova Casanova [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 9:28 pm ] |
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Hey ttmic, I think she likes you in some way. She's not sure whether she should put you in the friend zone or in the potential boyfriend zone. Of course you wanna be in the last and there are certain things you can do to prevent the opposite happens. Think of things like: - Kino-> Start touching her but make sure it doesn't get unnatural. - Displaying sexual interest and activity (you don't fuck your friends) * Don't be too eager/needy. Flirting is a game and when she catches her prey the fun is over. Keep it a game, flirt with other girls, etc. Find your own way to implement this idea in your way of gaming. Oh and now I remember where I wanted to go with this: Don't tell her you love her first. - And as Edy had already suggested, asking her number is a good way to show you're not planning to become her best friend, but her boyfriend. This might be usefull: http://roissy.wordpress.com/the-sixteen ... s-of-poon/ Chès |
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:07 am ] |
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that was a good link, butdoes it still apply to our age? with her best friend encouraging me to go for Terry, is that a good sign? I've learned not to put girls on pedstals cuz that's how I lose them in the past. but what can i do to get her in specific? she apparently texted Edy saying "eh" in reference to me. It wasn't good, but now really bad either, according to Edy. Edy said Terry really wanted to know if I like her her, and was mad when she didn't tell her. what do you take from that? |
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| Author: | fontinella [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:57 am ] |
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The best thing you can do really is tell Terry YOU like her and have her tell you how she feels. Don't be scared it'll be fun
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 2:26 am ] |
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You should have left a choice for "It doesn't matter (at this point)". Read this: i-like-you-you-like-me-vt79450.html?highlight=kasabi |
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 2:44 am ] |
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this was a good link! so I should just tease around when setting up a date? that's kinda how I talk to Terry as it is! jokingly and what not |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:47 am ] |
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Quote: this was a good link! so I should just tease around when setting up a date? that's kinda how I talk to Terry as it is! jokingly and what not
"Tease" isn't the point of that thread. The idea is to demonstrate to the girl that you like her instead of 'telling the girl' that you like her.
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 4:08 am ] |
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I see now. so I see it's one vote she likes me, two she doesn't. for those who don't think she likes me, why is that? |
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| Author: | fontinella [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 5:06 am ] |
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We can't tell you whether she likes you or not, and you can't miraculously figure it out. It doesn't matter whether she likes you or not! If you like her go get her! And thats all there is to it. |
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 5:24 am ] |
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alright I will! I don't think i've been friendzoned because we haven't really talked enough to even be classified as friends. we are more or less aquaintances. but I think I've built some what of an attraction thanks to my sense of humor. I think what I'm gonna do is at some point this week I'll get her number after class. I've never walked with her out of class so it will be out of the blue, but who cares. I'll just be like "hey I was wondering could I get your number?" then at some point call her. maybe not the first day I get it. but would it be awkward to wait to call her considering we sit right near each other in two classes? I'd call make it a short call, under 5 minutes and try to set up a date, something to do. and then my job would just be not to screw it up. so no big compliments. treat her well, but don't put her on a pedestal. does this sound good? she seems to be somewhat shy, at least with guys. any general advice on my plan of action above? thanks again guys! |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:05 pm ] |
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are-you-in-the-friendzone-vt80247.html |
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 10:03 pm ] |
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another good link, thanks  and I don't think I'm in the friendzone as of YET! I think Terry definitely knows. |
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| Author: | Nyseto [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 10:15 pm ] |
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That's so stupid, I hate that sort of shit. If I were you, I would have told that friend, "I do like her but I don't she's good enough for me." Word will spread and when she hears it she'll be DEFINITELY think you're not a friend and it will put her little mind to work. My style if more aggressive and meant to be more tough/strong then most peoples' but it works best for me. Your style depends on the way you look. If you look nerdy and not very tough at all, being like me would only make you look bad. |
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| Author: | ttimc [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 11:00 pm ] |
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haha I can imagine that would work, but not my style, I respect yours though, sure it works! I'm not nerdy, I actually work out a lot and look decent I guess. I mean i got a little acne but I'm average. she cute, but guys aren't all over her, so not totally sure what to do. I'm pretty sure it's out, but it's just how I'm gonna play it. how should i do it? nothing to drastic please 
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| Author: | ttimc [ Tue Dec 14, 2010 1:02 am ] |
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bump bump bump. please help guys! I need some good stuff for tomorrow. please read all posts before offering advice thanks
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