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Author:  adover [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Wierdest flake ever! Makes no sense!
Hi all,
Basically this is the story - met a HB8.5 last friday, gamed her for a little while, #closed, all was good! Then I ended up texting her the next day and arranging to meet! Still good! Then got her on a day 2, got her back to mine, k closed and then sent her home without pushing for sex (gotta make them want it - turn the tables!)... all still going well! Then got a text the next day saying how much she enjoyed herself... excellent I thought, arranged a day 3 for today, she was definitely interested! Then it went completely cold!

Basically after she agreed to meet today (We spoke about it Wednesday), I never heard anything more from her, then on a night out I saw her in the bar. Obviously when I saw her I went over to say hello, and literally got the cold shoulder! She looked shocked as if I'd caught her up to something, then simply said "I'm sorry, i'm with my friends" and turned her back!

I didn't even rise to it, literally just thought "go f*ck yourself then" and walked off and havent bothered contacting her!

But I'm wondering how the hell it happened! From getting her on a day 2 which she "loved every second of", to completely flaking altogether on me! Wtf?

Any ideas what went wrong?
Author:  StructureFunction [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 5:34 pm ]
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You might have lost the game when you arranged for day 3. From my outside perspective it seems your response to anything positive she said about her time with you was too eager. After 2 outings, you should be getting better than "she was deifnitely up for it". Maybe next time be less responsive to every positive thing a girl has to say after your dates and play it cooler.

Them bitches be crazy, lol. Good for you for walking away after the bar scene. She probably had other things going on in her life and you were a side dish for that time you two shared. It happens. Move along. :)
Author:  antic [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 10:57 pm ]
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Oh man I feel sorry for ya. I met this girl once and she was so into me before I even went to talk to her. Anyway k-closed her that night and she was like you have to come to the street party next weekend. Texted through the week all good until the night of the street party. We drive past the pub and she saw me in the car and fucking bolted with all her friends. Turned out she was back with her ex bf.

I was a confused kid that night. I ended up walking off by myself and happened to run into one of my ex's which was great because it turned into a fling for a while! So yeah make the most of every moment no matter how messed up it seems.
Author:  redman [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 5:58 am ]
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wow this is one of the weirdest ones.

well i think you shouldve pushed for sex. isnt there a general rule or some sort that says f-closes are done ideally in the same night as k-close? cuz by giving her that k-close, you released sexual tension: you coulda built up on it by fucking her same night, or, like what u did, lose it all by making it dissipate without reaching a climax. for instance, she couldve started having 2nd thoughts, like "shit who is this guy i've just met him twice and we kissed were still practically strangers!" or her friends coulda also contributed to that mindset. either way, dont give her time to analyze!

as for how to continue this on with this girl, im afraid some of the vets here have to answer (since im still afc level lol).

just dont get one-itis pls!!
Author:  0uch [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 6:21 am ]
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if you get her back to your place, just go for sex. Don't matter if it's the same day you meet her or next time your out. When a girl comes back over, she is down.

I think you got this pick up artist stuff too much into your head. She wanted to get laid but you didn't do it. Instead you were still "gaming" and fucked it up. Now some other guy fucked her instead.

Nothing weird about this one if you ask me.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 11:59 am ]
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Let me tell you a little story from my weekend.

I'm lying in bed talking with my fuckbuddy on sunday morning. The conversation goes like this:

FB: "So remember there was that guy at work I told you about who was really nice, and I thought he was gay when I first met him, but wasn't sure, because he told me he was straight?"
Me: "Yeah, Fernando or something?"
FB: "Mm hmm. Well, I know he's DEFINITELY gay for sure."
Me: "You saw him kissing a bunch of dudes?"
FB: "Haha, no. We went out drinking with some work friends, and I was too drunk and it was really late, so I crashed at his place. I was in his bed with just my panties on, and he DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO HAVE SEX WITH ME!

Moral of the story - if you do not escalate on an attractive girl with self-esteem, she will assume you're either GAY or a PUSSY. Either way you lose her respect as a sexual man. There is NO HARM in escalating too quickly on a girl. She'll just say "slow down" or "not yet" and you can just try again later. Escalating on her is a COMPLIMENT. Not doing so is basically an INSULT.
Author:  adover [ Mon Dec 13, 2010 6:27 pm ]
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So playing it cool killed my game! Dammit! Next time I get a girl into that situation I'm gonna push for all I can like I usually do!

This weekend was a complete kick in the nuts for me, went out twice and didn't get any numbers worth keeping, my FB flaked on me as well so she got ditched off and this bird flaked on me!! How that doesn't shake the inner game I do not know! Left me disillusioned!

Another painful lesson learnt though... I never chase women anyway so that will never be the problem, just trying to get over so much got damn rejection and failure without any real success (women of value showing interest) as it's really pissing me off/getting me down at the moment!! A definite bad patch!
Author:  redman [ Thu Dec 16, 2010 6:13 am ]
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So playing it cool killed my game! Dammit! Next time I get a girl into that situation I'm gonna push for all I can like I usually do!

This weekend was a complete kick in the nuts for me, went out twice and didn't get any numbers worth keeping, my FB flaked on me as well so she got ditched off and this bird flaked on me!! How that doesn't shake the inner game I do not know! Left me disillusioned!

Another painful lesson learnt though... I never chase women anyway so that will never be the problem, just trying to get over so much got damn rejection and failure without any real success (women of value showing interest) as it's really pissing me off/getting me down at the moment!! A definite bad patch!
stay cool man, you prolly just had a bad weekend let your inner game hold. flakes are gonna happen, and they gon be happening a lot. just try again next time, keep yer head up
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