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| Author: | fontinella [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 5:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is she just testing me? |
So this girl I've been texting about once a week, she replies back real fast and with lol haha, etc, but we haven't gotten together cuz of scheduling conflicts, although I've asked her to tag along a couple times to which she said she couldn't for one reason or another. So the other day I was at work bored, texted her asking what she was wearing (she lol;d). Then told her to entertain me with a joke or funny story, she responded that she didn't know any lol. So i didn't text back. The next day I texted her again she took 1 hour to respond the first time and didn't even respond to my reply. I was thinking of chalking this one and just calling her next week to hang out one last time. But was her not responding just getting back at me for cutting her off abruptly the night before? Should I just text her again like it never happened, or call her next week as planned? Thanx guys |
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| Author: | farismagic [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 6:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is she just testing me? |
Maybe you can say ..."I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met.  "btw i borrowed this from an amazing golden thread in the forum in routines dig it up. So I'm suggesting when you ask her out all her its much better i 90% of time as k them out over call but flirt conv. via text |
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| Author: | rakana [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 7:13 am ] |
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Well the real problem with texting is its SUPER easy to flake. Did you ever hear the term, "say it to my face"? Texting is the perfect way to avoid that. That said this can also work both ways. She can be icing you out, or she can just be busy. Some things to look at when she texts you to gauge her interest is to see how fast she texts back, and to look at the length of her texts. If she's sending you novels in half a minute, chances are she likes you...or she just has a lot, a real lot to say. That being said, texting is just a small portion of game, meeting up in person is going to have much more of an impact than a handful of words on a screen smaller than her hand. It really depends how your initial interaction with her went. If she thinks you're a fun guy, chances are she will text back (A trick to use: I learned this from Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game, when you put your name in her phone, put (your name), The awesome guy, so when she gets a text, she laughs at the joke and wants to read your message). Anyways, if she doesn't text you back, she could just be busy, so don't fret out and send a million text messages asking why she didn't text back, that would give her the power. I wouldn't suggest sending more than 3 texts if she never responded. Girls also tend to let guys down easy, and send what I like to call pity texts. These consist of usually just an "lol" and shows low interest on her part. What you want to do in that situation is reframe the situation, and say, "I thought you were fun". Anyways I digress, don't fret over the small things, just use texts to arrange dates (another trick..start the text off with "your mission is to meet me at X at X o'clock, this message will self destruct in 30 seconds, this would get her laughing and increase her interest), and make a positive impression in person on the dates, and then text her out of courtesy. PM me if you need any more examples, Hope this helps!! |
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| Author: | Adanos [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 10:31 am ] |
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Text game is crusial and almost unavoidable;When you have the phone,most ppl respond with texting.In texting,there are many disadvatages. What you did,is come up needy.I know you might said it to tease and humor her,but texting is ice cold.She can recieve it the way she wants-and that is needy. Thats the only negative reason she will not respond,or delay msg,as well as she got bored after all this time without going out. |
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| Author: | fontinella [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 7:54 pm ] |
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No, I know all about texting, I'm just wondering about this secific situation, How do u figure I came up needy? |
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| Author: | jjthejetplane773 [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 10:38 pm ] |
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In you're situation there's a couple good things and bad things (I know it's not all black and white, but it gives you a pretty good idea). Things we know: She actually responds: good Her original responses were quick: good Her responses were short: bad She avoids meeting up: bad She never responded back: bad? You never mentioned your last texts, so I can't really analyze. Did you invoke a response? She could have possibly been busy, that's natural. Now, I would look at this and say your time is best invested elsewhere, for now. I would wait a little while like a few days, a week, or more and see how she responds then. |
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