PUA Forum :: My age is my biggest "Cock-Block"

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If you wanna lie, go ahead. I'm 17, and in college. I rarely see 18 or 19 year olds so I'm forced to game 20+s.

Like people say, there's only a problem if you think there is a problem. Maybe you should look at this as improvement. If they're going to lose interest because of your age, then your game may not be as strong as you like.

Agreed. If a woman asks how old you are at first, then she's questioning in her mind whether or not you are old enough for her. Other than looks, your behavior is the next thing to tip her off about this.

If you lie about your age then you are just proving what you are already showing through your behavior, that you are uncomfortable with it. The reason may be you are uncomfortable with your level of maturity.

I have this dilemma sometimes as well, as I am a college freshmen at the age of twenty four. Once I start defending my age or the reason why I am here at this age, it becomes a problem.

To them, the question is "you're twenty four and you're a freshman?"

To me the question is "You're going to judge me on that and you know nothing about me? You're not the type of person I'm looking to associate with."

If it's not a problem to you then it won't be a problem to anyone else. Look within yourself and improve what you need to so this does not become a bigger issue. You are 18. That is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone 18 or older has at one point been your age, and most people under it will be eventually. It's not like you have micropenis or a lisp.

Author:	Petari [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 7:40 pm ]
Post subject:	My age is my biggest "Cock-Block" - Should i be lying?
Well, apparently my age is a HUGE cockblocker, the girls i walk up too and flirt with, are always older than me, yesterday i was gaming to girls, they were so in to me, until they found out i was 18 ... (they were 22 & 23) And all the suddently their IL hit rock buttom... But they said we should go see each other saturday night, go to a party once again... But they have not answers my text today (Even so they texted me like 15 times the day we met) anyway.. is it okay to lie about my age? just tell people i am 20 yrs old (people usually guess i am 19-21) __________________

Author:	farismagic [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: My age is my biggest "Cock-Block" - Should i be lying?
As one of DAVID DeAngelo's disciples said when a girl asks you about your age all you gotta say is that you are too old to answer that question (because they just wanna know if you are old enough)

Author:	Puaking [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 8:32 pm ]
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You're not old enough?... Hmm.. I'd treat it as a shit test.

Author:	Petari [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 9:02 pm ]
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Quote: You're not old enough?... Hmm.. I'd treat it as a shit test. I do not know about this, it was runing SMOOTHLY until the age, the expression on her face haha

Author:	thinhman [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 9:22 pm ]
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If you wanna lie, go ahead. I'm 17, and in college. I rarely see 18 or 19 year olds so I'm forced to game 20+s. Like people say, there's only a problem if you think there is a problem. Maybe you should look at this as improvement. If they're going to lose interest because of your age, then your game may not be as strong as you like.

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Author:	_Lothario_ [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 10:42 pm ]
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Quote: If you wanna lie, go ahead. I'm 17, and in college. I rarely see 18 or 19 year olds so I'm forced to game 20+s. Like people say, there's only a problem if you think there is a problem. Maybe you should look at this as improvement. If they're going to lose interest because of your age, then your game may not be as strong as you like. Agreed. If a woman asks how old you are at first, then she's questioning in her mind whether or not you are old enough for her. Other than looks, your behavior is the next thing to tip her off about this. If you lie about your age then you are just proving what you are already showing through your behavior, that you are uncomfortable with it. The reason may be you are uncomfortable with your level of maturity. I have this dilemma sometimes as well, as I am a college freshmen at the age of twenty four. Once I start defending my age or the reason why I am here at this age, it becomes a problem. To them, the question is "you're twenty four and you're a freshman?" To me the question is "You're going to judge me on that and you know nothing about me? You're not the type of person I'm looking to associate with." If it's not a problem to you then it won't be a problem to anyone else. Look within yourself and improve what you need to so this does not become a bigger issue. You are 18. That is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone 18 or older has at one point been your age, and most people under it will be eventually. It's not like you have micropenis or a lisp.

Author:	Petari [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 2:44 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: If you wanna lie, go ahead. I'm 17, and in college. I rarely see 18 or 19 year olds so I'm forced to game 20+s. Like people say, there's only a problem if you think there is a problem. Maybe you should look at this as improvement. If they're going to lose interest because of your age, then your game may not be as strong as you like. Agreed. If a woman asks how old you are at first, then she's questioning in her mind whether or not you are old enough for her. Other than looks, your behavior is the next thing to tip her off about this. If you lie about your age then you are just proving what you are already showing through your behavior, that you are uncomfortable with it. The reason may be you are uncomfortable with your level of maturity. I have this dilemma sometimes as well, as I am a college freshmen at the age of twenty four. Once I start defending my age or the reason why I am here at this age, it becomes a problem. To them, the question is "you're twenty four and you're a freshman?" To me the question is "You're going to judge me on that and you know nothing about me? You're not the type of person I'm looking to associate with." If it's not a problem to you then it won't be a problem to anyone else. Look within yourself and improve what you need to so this does not become a bigger issue. You are 18. That is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone 18 or older has at one point been your age, and most people under it will be eventually. It's not like you have micropenis or a lisp. You are right.. And i guess i will not be lying, and if my "AGE" is a problem, then i guess i will have to change the way i act, kalibrate my game... but thanks

Author:	alex_astaera [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 3:39 pm ]
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Lying is never OK. It's wrong and will hurt you in the long run. They won't think your age is an issue if you don't. If it really bothers you, just make a joke about it and don't answer the age question at all. You should probably invest some time working on your inner game.

Author:	DeepCover [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 11:30 pm ]
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First, you guys are right that behavior is far more important than the actual number. But let's also examine reality. A few years at those ages are often HUGE! She's legal to drink but you've only been on your own for a few months. When you are 21-22 and see the new freshman guys you will realize they look like boys. College is a repeat of high school in many ways. Did the freshman guys go out with the senior girls? Ya, we all knew that one lucky guy but the rest of you are fucked. And guess what? When you are 25, those 21 y/o guys will still look like boys. Listen, guys are simply a joke until they get out of college, and it often takes many years after that. That's just the way it is and many (not all) women are not going to give a younger guy a chance. Now, you can't imagine just how good that news is! Because in a few years you are no longer gonna be the guy on the bottom. And for the next 10 years, you are gonna have a shot with cute, young, college girls because they want the older guy. Trust me, this is all worth it in the long run.

Author:	Conguy [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:57 am ]
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I strongly disagree!That one lucky guy i am sure he is friends with a lot of seniors, college game is all about social circles. The only reason a freshman don't go out with seniors is because of the social proof, if a freshman who acts a bit older goes out at night to a bar and meets a HBsenior cold approaching, age won't even matter, But i am not from America so i don't know how it is there, but here in Europe we can drink alcohol, and do almost everything when we are 18, so you can be 18 and have way more life experience than her, and i think if you convey that, age is not really a problem. I prefer not to lie, not because it's wrong or whatever but because facebook is a bitch... xD a friend of mine always lies about stuff like that and it has always worked out. I have that same dilemma that you're having, it's way easier if we lie, but it can have consequences. I think the best thing is to avoid answering that question, I this once with a older HB, is trying to get them to guess, and then say something to get them to qualify, : If you behave well, i might tell you. (this doesn't sound that good in english, but you get the idea) I am not from an english speaking country so i'm sorry if i made any mistakes. I hope this was useful!

Author:	PlayHer Man [ Sun Dec 12, 2010 4:27 am ]
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You wont be 18 forever. Relax and take comfort in this fact. As we men get older we have more and more options. When you are 25 you can still date an 18 year old. But when you are 18 its hard to date anyone older and if you go younger its illegal. Just be patient. You will enjoy abundence soon enough

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