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Author:  Century100 [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 3:53 am ]
Post subject:  How can I deal with my competitor? situation described below
I need some advice on how I can crush this competition, letting her pick me.

OK firstly, i dont know who's in a better spot. But i have a great feeling he has never kissed her, and that he is in the friend zone with her (cant be sure), but this is based on his capabilities with women and how she talks about him when i bring him up.
Hes loud and funny, but prone to getting stuck in the friend zone as he doesnt kino, he is not confident.

Ive kissed her, made out with her, and would have fucked her save for the fact no protection was available when i invited her over. Shes told me straight out she likes me more than she does a friend.

But this guy is making things difficult. They were friends before i came along, so he still invites her over to group sleep overs with others (without me being there). (were all within the 16-18 age bracket). He texts her alot and makes heaps of efforts to talk to her. He invites her out to go shopping for christmas gifts. He does this all behind my back, when he knows that her and I are growing close (i find out through her, she tells me)

And she goes with it - since they have been friends for a year. Deep down, i dont think she would go for him. But hes making things super difficult. For example, if i call her and hes with her, HE will answer her phone (acting like hes joking), with the strategy of preventing me and her talking.


What i need help with is:
-what can I do to make sure she wont ever go for him (assuming she hasnt already. I understand thats a possibility)?
-any other advice regarding this situation.


OR should i just move on? Id love to just say "shes not worth it" and go for other girls, but the issue there is that then its as if im letting this fuckhead win.
Author:  new2game [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:01 am ]
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Make a move.
eg. A guy at work would always hit on my g.f, walk her to the car etc. I thought "fuck this" walked inbetween them and started making out with her, he eventually slinked off.

Im guessing your in school? Next time your all together and he is trying something. Simply grab her hand and say "lets go somewhere special" and lead her away.
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:14 am ]
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i know i would be tempted to confront him. and if he gets lippy, kick his cunt in. however, from experience this is not a great way to go with it. it emliminates him cos he looks weak and defeated but also your chances are decreased as you look like a neandertholic thug. but i have noted on a couple of occaisions that if you bait him into hitting you first you can come out looking good. this is way i would go.

another good tactic if your not too handy with your fists is to get a mutual friebd who you trust most, your best friend perhaps, to start a nasty lil rumour about this pleb. again something i have used to great effect.

try doing boyfriend destroyers too. or varients of anyway.

also tyr neutralising him, you seem to know him quite well so say stuff like ' i feel sorry for him cos of......' -insert something bout him thats going to devalue him

or

'i think its funny when he answers your phone, he's like a little kid, hes a funny guy'

be assertive, dont back down to him in front of her but dont come of overly aggressive either. dont let her see this guy bothers you, it only confirms to her she is the prize and she can have a little fun playin you off each other. i would start hanging with another hb to do your xmas shopping. she might be into spending more of her time with you if she sees potential competition. light a fire under her ass.

whatever you do, he deserves it, sounds like a complete banger-and-a-half to me.
Author:  AGDubz [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:56 am ]
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Lol agreed with what that guy above said. If you bait the kid into hitting you first, and you lay him out, you look so much better. it'll destroy his chances because he'll look like a bitch and he threw the first punch, so he can't say that you're a thug.
Author:  Gatordude [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 4:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I deal with my competitor? situation described below
Quote:

Ive kissed her, made out with her, and would have fucked her save for the fact no protection was available when i invited her over. Shes told me straight out she likes me more than she does a friend.

But this guy is making things difficult. They were friends before i came along, so he still invites her over to group sleep overs with others (without me being there). (were all within the 16-18 age bracket). He texts her alot and makes heaps of efforts to talk to her. He invites her out to go shopping for christmas gifts. He does this all behind my back, when he knows that her and I are growing close (i find out through her, she tells me)

And she goes with it - since they have been friends for a year. Deep down, i dont think she would go for him. But hes making things super difficult. For example, if i call her and hes with her, HE will answer her phone (acting like hes joking), with the strategy of preventing me and her talking.


What i need help with is:
-what can I do to make sure she wont ever go for him (assuming she hasnt already. I understand thats a possibility)?
-any other advice regarding this situation.


OR should i just move on? Id love to just say "shes not worth it" and go for other girls, but the issue there is that then its as if im letting this fuckhead win.
Simply put, you made out with her, he hsan't, he goes shopping with her you don't, HE'S GAY!!!!, you're not, (hopefully), Man up, get a condom and go fuck her!
There problem solved!
Author:  JasonDursing [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 5:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: re
Quote:
i know i would be tempted to confront him. and if he gets lippy, kick his cunt in. however, from experience this is not a great way to go with it. it emliminates him cos he looks weak and defeated but also your chances are decreased as you look like a neandertholic thug. but i have noted on a couple of occaisions that if you bait him into hitting you first you can come out looking good. this is way i would go.

another good tactic if your not too handy with your fists is to get a mutual friebd who you trust most, your best friend perhaps, to start a nasty lil rumour about this pleb. again something i have used to great effect.

try doing boyfriend destroyers too. or varients of anyway.

also tyr neutralising him, you seem to know him quite well so say stuff like ' i feel sorry for him cos of......' -insert something bout him thats going to devalue him

or

'i think its funny when he answers your phone, he's like a little kid, hes a funny guy'

be assertive, dont back down to him in front of her but dont come of overly aggressive either. dont let her see this guy bothers you, it only confirms to her she is the prize and she can have a little fun playin you off each other. i would start hanging with another hb to do your xmas shopping. she might be into spending more of her time with you if she sees potential competition. light a fire under her ass.

whatever you do, he deserves it, sounds like a complete banger-and-a-half to me.
Mate I wouldn't recommend doing any of these.

A fight will make you look bad no matter what.
If you initiate it, she will hate you...unless she has a fetish for it or something.
If you made him initiate it, it MAY look better on you, BUT it wouldn't be wise since if you win, you may knock him out so hard that it will result in further problems, not only with law but with her, she can't really say I'm not going to see him anymore, since she seems to be good friends with him.

Plus if he turns out to be Karate Kid your f*cked...

Don't get physical on him, do it with your game.

AMOG him, make him know your the alpha male, and hes a loser trying to get with YOUR girl.

Whenever hes with her, block him out of the conversation, let him in, as soon as he says something stupid (which from your post he seems to be a douche) kick him out of the group again, and make everyone agree with you.

If he picks up the phone when you call her, be polite, even if hes like shes in the shitter or something, be polite. Theres a possibility it may be on speaker, and if your polite he can't do shit about it.

Lastly, havn't you asked her out to any dates yet?
Dates usually demonstrate...to both parties...that you are "basically" a couple and in a relationship.

If you just want a root, invite her to dinner then your house, fuck close her, and let him have the remains of her vagina.

P.S Who the fuck doesn't have condoms at his house when he invites a girl over ;) hahahaha. Loved that part when I read it xD.

Good luck bro, any more questions or want me to elaborate let me know.

x
Author:  Jigsaw Jimmy [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 5:18 am ]
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While sometimes I really do like the full frontal bash the jackass' head in approach, here I'd go for something more personal. Steal her from right under his nose.

When he answers her phone, ask for her. If he's a dick about handing the phone over, she'll see that. That's a huge DLV, he can't take competition.

You've already got the ball rolling with her, he hasn't. He's an AFC. You know better than to make the same mistakes he does. Get the Full Close and if he doesn't back off she'll see him as desperate.

Another thing, she may be using him as a shit test for you. If you haven't made any commitment, play the field a bit. Show her your just as good as her at finding other people, and she may come crawling back.

I've had girls, who I figured had no potential to move forward with, turn around and show a lot more interest after they see me with other girls. The allure of the unattainable is infectious, except instead of her being unattainable you are the one who's the challenge. Its old school MM, and its dynamite.
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