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| Author: | marineguy [ Thu Dec 09, 2010 5:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | i dont wanna mess up my chances with this one.... HELP |
Met a fuckin smokeshow girl in one of my classes, found out shes a singer and invited to see her band play last week. I went, she was really good, and shes absolutely gorgeous. After the show, she invited me out to hit the bars with her, but I knew I wouldnt get a lot of one on one face time with her with her whole entourage around, so I didn't go. It was the best move. Well, this week is the week before finals, and next week is finals, so everyone is busy as shit studying. AND she is going home for winter break, and i wanna do something before she leaves to go home. I called her and left a vmail. no answer. she immediately txted me back and said "im at the library, whats up?" me: "Not too much, I called to ask you to dinner sometime before break starts. Didn't wanna ask via text lol. You seem like you could be a real cool girl, and if you want, id like to grab some food with you sometime" her: "Haha that would be fun! This week is kinda crazy for me but maybe sometime next week?" me: "yep sounds good" her:"and by the way if you are bored with nothing to do on Saturday night you should totally come to my acapella groups winter show lol" > I cant go cause Im working, but i wanna keep the conversations flowing via texts and shit cause i dont want her to lose interest. she gets enough attention. PLEASE!!!!! any tips on how i should go about this? |
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| Author: | farismagic [ Thu Dec 09, 2010 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: i dont wanna mess up my chances with this one.... HELP |
When you say that you didn't want to tell her over text and you did anyways shows lack of confidence. Its like saying if you say know i understand why. you are already expecting her to say no. when being confidence NO is not going in your mind. i think you can work on your confidence. and when you ask her out claim that you are going anyways with or with out her. and ask her if she wants to tag along or join you. makes you more in charge, also pushing away draws her in ( i know what you did worked but not with all girls). |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Dec 09, 2010 6:38 pm ] |
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By proverbially drooling over this girl and saying that, "I dont want to mess it up". You're essentially messing it up already with that frame. You should'nt care to mess it up;at least dont show her you care. Good thing you havent communicated to her that you care or she'd run for the hills. Another thing I applaaud you for is not showing up to all her performances as if you're a groupie supporting her. In essence,I notice she trying to LJBF you,but I see you not falling for it. Im kinda dissappointed that you proposed a dinner date-boring!!! Traditional dates are f***ing boring & nerve racking for women. It's not conducive to PU. Why not invite her on a walk? A stroll,or something fun? More chances at KINO while strolling,hold her hand playfully then push her away playfully,etc. On a dinner date,chances of KINO touching are slim. The stroll will eventually take yall to some where semi-secluded where you can work on comfort then seduction then the lay. You cannot do the above in a restaurant unless you're super confident & social. |
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| Author: | marineguy [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:18 am ] |
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Thanks fellas. Got out of a relationship a couple months ago so ive been a little rusty |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 12:39 am ] |
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Understandable Marine guy;I go through rusty phases also. Dont mean to pry,but what ended your last relationship or how did it end? Im currently deciding whether to end mines. |
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| Author: | Puaking [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 2:13 am ] |
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Quote: By proverbially drooling over this girl and saying that, "I dont want to mess it up".
Took the text out of my hands. With that type of mentality, you are eventually going to mess up.
You're essentially messing it up already with that frame. You should'nt care to mess it up;at least dont show her you care. Good thing you havent communicated to her that you care or she'd run for the hills. Another thing I applaaud you for is not showing up to all her performances as if you're a groupie supporting her. In essence,I notice she trying to LJBF you,but I see you not falling for it. Im kinda dissappointed that you proposed a dinner date-boring!!! Traditional dates are f***ing boring & nerve racking for women. It's not conducive to PU. Why not invite her on a walk? A stroll,or something fun? More chances at KINO while strolling,hold her hand playfully then push her away playfully,etc. On a dinner date,chances of KINO touching are slim. The stroll will eventually take yall to some where semi-secluded where you can work on comfort then seduction then the lay. You cannot do the above in a restaurant unless you're super confident & social. |
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