My really good friend is a natural and really good looking. I'm maybe average looking and have had to learn every piece of the puzzle in order to successfully interact with women.
The first thing you have to realise is that there will always be a guy who is stronger, better looking, richer, funnier, taller, more interesting, more intelligent and has a bigger dick than you. Always. However, all you can do is try your best to improve the things you can change about yourself to be the best you can, and accept the things you can't change. That's it.
With my friend, I see guys and girls naturally open him because he is confident, attractive and generally a magnetic individual. I have to open sets if I want people to pay attention to me. That's the just the way things are. But you know what? I've ended up with the boring/ugly friend whilst helping him get laid, and he's done the same for me basically the same number of times.
As long as you can hook sets with your personality, humour, intelligence and positive attitude (all things you have control over), then he may get one of the girls based on his looks, but you can get the other because you're a fucking awesome person.
Hating or being jealous of someone because they have something you don't is a pointless waste of energy. Instead, focus on aspects of yourself you can change and do the best to make yourself a great person, and you'll feel more of a sense of achievement because you actually worked to make yourself who you are, whereas a good looking natural was just given it, and doesn't even understand why what they do works!
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