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Author:  thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:33 am ]
Post subject:  Is this a good approach?
Ok, so I went to Clair's Icing with my sisters today, and at the register, I saw a very attractive girl workin the register.

I didn't talk to her because I was a mess today. My mom says that I need to return some stuff for her there, and I thought that this was the perfect opportunity to meet her and ask her out on a date (If she's workin that day.)
I mean, I'm not gonna go in there, return things, ask her for her number, and leave. That sounds kinda creepy.
I'm going to go and return stuff. Then shop around pretending to look for stuff for family and casually start brining up a conversation with her. Asker her if she thinks this would make a good present for my sister? Then after 20-30 minutes, I'll see if she wants to grap coffee or a lunch sometime.

You think this sounds creepy? I usually do this on campus (I'm a college freshman). I've never done it outside of campus before. That's why I'm worried. I mean, if she says no, then I'll forget about it. I'm not the type of guy who pursues and pursues.
Author:  Noah E [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this a good approach?
Quote:
Ok, so I went to Clair's Icing with my sisters today, and at the register, I saw a very attractive girl workin the register.

I didn't talk to her because I was a mess today. My mom says that I need to return some stuff for her there, and I thought that this was the perfect opportunity to meet her and ask her out on a date (If she's workin that day.)
I mean, I'm not gonna go in there, return things, ask her for her number, and leave. That sounds kinda creepy.
I'm going to go and return stuff. Then shop around pretending to look for stuff for family and casually start brining up a conversation with her. Asker her if she thinks this would make a good present for my sister? Then after 20-30 minutes, I'll see if she wants to grap coffee or a lunch sometime.

You think this sounds creepy? I usually do this on campus (I'm a college freshman). I've never done it outside of campus before. That's why I'm worried. I mean, if she says no, then I'll forget about it. I'm not the type of guy who pursues and pursues.
The best way to get Hired guns is to seed them. Dont just ask her out on a regular boring lunch date, think about something you and your friends are gonna do in the future that's fun (bowling, ice skating etc) and talk about it with her along with other stuff, then game her using your approach ("whats a good gift for my sis?") until you guys are getting along.

Then before you leave mention the event you and your friends are going to do and invite her along. It's a million times more comfortable for the girl to use this method instead. Then tell her to put her number in your phone as opposed to asking for it.

These are all things I've learned from other people, and they all work. I actually used this example because I convinced a bartender at a local bar to buy me a free drink because she would be seeing me a lot more at her place (this is the first time I'd been there) and invited her to come bowling with me and my friends.
Author:  farismagic [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Is this a good approach?
I give an offer they cant refuse i usually say... "I'm having this amazing barbecue over my house and alot of my friends are going to be there, maybe if ud like to join us... actually u should!!! (they usually say why or should i...?) then u say only of u behave ur self ofc (they laugh or say hey im well behaved)" then say that ull give her a text and let her enter her number in easy as that.
Author:  thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:06 am ]
Post subject:  Great advice, but...
Seriously, awesome advice, but most of it will not work for me.
I have but 1 real friend, and he and I don't hang out very much. Usually, when I'm not trying to improve my game, I'm studying or playing my guitar.
I'm not a loser. I just prefer more time to myself.
So I need some advice that deals with flying solo. Can't invite her to chill with my friends and I because I don't chill with people often. I don't really want to.
Author:  farismagic [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Great advice, but...
You can tell her that you are going with your friends but when she comes be like something came up and they couldn't make it. cuz remember friends = social approval DHV just tell her that they are going to be there and make it very exciting so she cant say no. and tease her make her prove her self to you... you can be like are you good around other people she'll obv. say yes, and my personal fave is only if u behave ur self then you can say I'll let you meet my friends very nice people... AGAIN make it very exciting and fun and that if she doesn't come she'll miss out! ( put ur self in her shoes you wouldn't wanna miss out an exciting night out)
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 10:41 am ]
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1. I would suggest hanging out with more people in general. If you don't like dudes, get yourself some female friends. Doing activities/hobbies that you're interested in around a group setting (e.g. yoga class, salsa dancing class, rock climbing, etc.) is a great way to easily meet friends with whom you already share at least one common interest.

2. Despite this, you can still just invite her to a 1-on-1 thing with just you. Things are only "creepy" if you make it seem like they are. If you like the cashier, then go up and talk to her for 5-10 minutes, crack a couple of jokes, tease and flirt with her a bit, and if you guys get on, tell her she's fun and cute and you guys should hang out. Find out when she's free either after work that day or sometime in the week, and fucking plan out when and where to meet her. Then exchange numbers just in case one of you is late.
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