Well, the concept's the same. Make her feel sexy with touch.
Goodluck.
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| Author: | urielpie [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 3:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to escalate/get the train rolling quickly now? |
I've talked to this girl about 3 times now she goes to my highschool and i opened her up at first calling her an indie girl(slang) she got super pissed but i walked over to her turned it around 360 and by the end of the study break me her friend and her were having a "grand" time. and 2nd time i saw her she hugged me and we talked a little bla bla (didnt get number either time as im not allowed to have cell phone haha). then i talked about how were in same math and she should tutor me or some shit and she said yah shed like to do that. 3rd time (today) i got her number on my iphone which doesnt have service talked a bit and i texted her hey puma (nickname she gave me) buut she didnt respond. so im curious as to where to take it from here convo wise. cause i dont want to sound needy like bugging her to hang out but i dont wanna end up friend zoned. any help would be nice thanks |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | What do you want to acomplish? |
F buddy or relationship or one night stand? Answers are going to be based on your goals. |
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| Author: | urielpie [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:26 am ] |
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i wouldnt mind a relationship with her actually so i wouldnt mind hearing the answers to that. |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 7:08 am ] |
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Well, I personally believe that you are taking things too slow. I know you guys are in high school, but man... I can see your friendzone issue coming up fast. Then again... High school is almost entirely different from the real world. When I was in high school (last year xD), I took things way too slow as well. I had 3 girlfriends in high school. So you COULD theoretically keep on doing what you're doing: taking things slow; building up to the moment that you first touch her hand; etc. Here's the approach that I would recommend: Quote: by the end of the study break me her friend and her were having a "grand" time.
She should feel somewhat comfortable with you now. You don't want her to feel TOO comfortable, otherwise she'll treat you more as a best friend instead of something geared towards intimacy.The next time you see her, break the touch barrier. Don't grab her ass, but inconspicuously touch her hand or her shoulder or somewhere else that's "innocent"; she wont suspect your intentions if you keep things innocent. Ex: If you're at lunch and you're thirsty. Tell her to accompany you to the vending machine. When she gets up, grab her hand (NOT the death grip) and gently guide her to the vendings. Trust me when I say she will be thinking a LOT bout you grabbing her hand. Ex 2: (This should ONLY be done if you're experienced and a smooth talker) This is a risky move because it's a make or break type of deal. If you get this to work, you've just made it and it's smooth sailing all the way through. If it's unsuccessful, there may be a period of awkwardness between the two of you. Now, say she gets up to go to the vending machine with you. Put you hand on the small of her back as you walk. She may look at you weird, but as long as she doesn't push your hand away, she likes it. The key is to feel comfortable when you do this. If you act all nervous, she'll think of you as a creeper. If she feels comfortable with your hand on your back, you've done it. You should know what to do next. (Nothing perverted or you'll ruin a good plan). So why is it important to break the touch barrier? It will make her feel sexy. You NEED to make her to feel sexy if you don't want to be just friends. It's a requirement. Touch is much easier at accomplishing this than talking, thus why I'm recommending touch to you. Remember! The KEY is to feel comfortable around your surroundings. Your state of mind WILL affect hers. |
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| Author: | urielpie [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 8:45 am ] |
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thanks i appreciate it. i see what you mean completely too bad theres no vending machines haha. but i'll thinka something |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Oh... |
Well, the concept's the same. Make her feel sexy with touch. Goodluck. |
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| Author: | urielpie [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 3:52 am ] |
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meh maybe im just thinking too hard about it but i only see her once a day for 2-3minutes so i couldnt exactly do anything today as her friend was in a pissy mood and budged her way next to her. |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Wed Dec 08, 2010 4:00 am ] |
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Thinking an enemy that you need to avoid. Since you have 2 minutes, that's enough time to ask her on a date. Just go with the flow. Leave your brain in class. |
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