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Author:  vaybebaybe [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Freezing up whilst talking

Hey guys, I just needed a bit of help as to why I always freeze up while speaking to fit women.

When I say freeze up, this meaning me becoming frozen in terms of not knowing what material to use and forgetting all of the canned material that I have recently learned in the past.

Here is what happened two days back when I just froze up not knowing what to say in order to number close or get any other contact information and build from there...

So, most of my sarging happens in train stations as I travel a lot, and so there was, this stunnin blonde woman sitting next to me, and it wasn't cold in the train station at all, as it was underground, but she was sorta pretending that it was, so she could have a convo with me. So, there she began, claiming it was cold, when it wasn't and then I agreed, saying yeah it is quite cold and it has been continuously snowing for the past few days etc.

Then all of a sudden, because I had a tennis bag, as I had just come back from a tournament, she immediately took interest and asked me, I see you got a tennis bag there, did you play anywhere at all, and then I began going on about me doing a tennis scholarship and the fact that I am trying to make it a professional tennis player. And, strangely, she liked tennis a lot and she was a coach before hand and we had a similarities in terms of tennis.

But then the train arrived, and on underground trains, it is always usually packed, so she suggested to wait for a bit until we can get some space to move onto the next one, and I agreed. So then, we still continued our conversation about tennis and I asked her name and we shook hands.

And when we were standing on the train next to each other, we were virtually fuckin! we were just so close to each other.

So then her stop was coming up. And I needed to get some contact info in order to escalate the friendship further, but I just didn't know what to say, and I had learned the mystery method before and how to number close or get any other contact information just short after the target is going to leave, but I just couldn't think of anything and I just don't know why!?

So if anyone could please give me some recommendations as to help me stop freezing up whilst talking and just effortlessly number close, then I would be very grateful.

Thanks a lot

Vay

Author:  Obfuscasis [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 3:17 pm ]
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Leave her hungry - get off at the stop before her, go down a couple cars, and hop back on to get home. "Hey, I need to run and meet up with some friends (social validation). My schedule is pretty packed for the next couple days (you don't need her), but give me your number so we can get together (you're running this show)."

Get her number, and if you're feeling ballsy, tell her to give you kiss so you don't forget her.

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