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Author:  Nyseto [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:  The Alpha Male
There is something I've realized about being a PUA. You can either be one of those frail, but smart people like Mystery, or you can be the more masculine alpha male. I personally think that alpha males have it much easier because they actually act like men and don't act all cocky and funny as much as other PUAs. It just seems like the cocky and funny technique is too childish or immature in a way...it's not all seductive and masculine.

I'm curious on how an alpha male acts. What would an alpha male do in a situation where a guy confronts him? Does he retaliate back with smart talk or lay it low and try to become friends?

What about when a girl confronts an alpha male? Does he smart talk her to put her in her place and feel sorry or does he keep he ignore her?

I've watched in movie scenes specifically for "alpha male" that the alpha male doesn't back down when a girl insults him. People say that an alpha male doesn't waste his time but actually stepping up to the challenge and not walking away could have a better outcome than just walking away and losing the girl. Here is what I mean: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mdk7pthMMT4
Author:  crimsonred [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 1:29 am ]
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haha I was on the elevator with my universitys football player once. a hot chick walked in. she fixed her bra. he said hey there what floor you going. she said 7 he said maybe you should stop on 5 at my place. she said ok and they left together. thats how the tough alpha males doit
Author:  farismagic [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 4:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Alpha Male
There's nothing wrong with being cocky and funny, you are still an alpha male. alpha male is u have ur own zone u dun care what other people say.. u got no emotions .. ur confidant also u admit that u make mistakes and work on fixing them that is the most important also people do not tell you what to do
Author:  LD [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 6:23 am ]
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There's nothing wrong with being cocky and funny, you are still an alpha male. alpha male is u have ur own zone u dun care what other people say.. u got no emotions .. ur confidant also u admit that u make mistakes and work on fixing them that is the most important also people do not tell you what to do
Hi man.

Your idea of an alpha male comes closer to being a terminator. Not caring what other people say? That is bullshit. Not having emotions or not showing them? Hasta la vista baby. that is not being alpha.

Being alpha is going for what you want, no matter what. Being alpha is being able to deal with truth, with reality, no matter what. Being alpha is being yourself and standing behind the choices you make in your life.

I rather see a goofy nerd cry at a funeral then a buffed up asshole pretending its not affecting him. I rather see the same nerd step up to a girl, stating what he want, then a witty cocky and funny 'alpha male' who is pretending not to care but has no guts to tell what it is he wants. And dont complaint about the wrong generalization, not all who do cocky and funny are like that, it was sort of speak.

Emotion is seduction, emotion is PU. You cant do without it. Dealing with those emotions, face your fears and going for what it is in you want in your life, that is alpha.

Its not a 'be witty' contest.

ciao
Author:  new2game [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:03 am ]
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Well I would say that an alpha doesn't compromise his frame. He always knows what is happening, and knows how to react to it.

EG. I was texting a girl and she was playing with me, trying to get a reaction, but i didn't react;

her; were you hungover this morning?
me; i dont get hangovers babe, i dont know y :)
Her; ....babe..... (shit test)
me; yes
her; haha, you woke me up :( i was naaping
me; haha my bad i wont text you anymore :P
her; noo i didnt say that... just said you woke me up :)

Now she was hoping I would react and apologise for calling her "babe". But no I thought of what an alpha would do and went with it.
Author:  Legit_ [ Mon Dec 06, 2010 10:26 am ]
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Well I would say that an alpha doesn't compromise his frame. He always knows what is happening, and knows how to react to it.

EG. I was texting a girl and she was playing with me, trying to get a reaction, but i didn't react;

her; were you hungover this morning?
me; i dont get hangovers babe, i dont know y :)
Her; ....babe..... (shit test)
me; yes
her; haha, you woke me up :( i was naaping
me; haha my bad i wont text you anymore :P
her; noo i didnt say that... just said you woke me up :)

Now she was hoping I would react and apologise for calling her "babe". But no I thought of what an alpha would do and went with it.
Yes.

If you're say something like this on a limb, the most important thing, I've learned, is to STICK TO YOUR FRAME. If you do something cocky like call a girl "babe" you WILL BE shit tested, and the WORST thing you can do is back down.

Even if I make a stupid mistake, unless it's REALLY something that I should apologize for, I'll stick to what I did. You should apologize very, very rarely. If you must, you can use terms like "I feel bad," or "Mistakes were made," but DON'T go around apologizing for mistakes that you might make.
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