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| Author: | blinkau [ Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Work Girls (Tough Situation) |
Hi All, In the last few months I have been reading and trying to learn new skills to help me recover from my afc position. I have mainly focused on reading the David DeAngelo and also downloaded a few other ebooks. I initially started playing around with the stuff at work and now have myself in bit of a bind and was hoping you all could provide some advice. The situation is I work with a girl who is rather attractive and very outgoing with an unusual personality. When I first met her I know she showed some form of initial interest as she would be flirting/challenging me all day at work and I returned this with some of the cocky/funny humor. It worked great she asked me out to a few different parties but and I turned her down then finally accepted to come along to one. At the party I made sure I didn't pay much attention to her and focused on having fun and getting to know her friends. It all went well she grabbed my leg once or twice but otherwise nothing overly eventful happened. I found out she was seeing someone at the time (I didn't really care as I wasn't that interested) and she kept trying to explain the situation to me or how she had all these other guys but I didn't let it bother me and just brushed it off. I ended up going on a few other dates in between this (with other girls) and she would text me asking me to come over and see her – I would just ignore the texts. Fast forwarding we went to a birthday party together got all sorts of 'are you a couple' comments to which I would sometimes reply she was my wife, my fiancée or no we had just broken up. The party went well we had heaps of fun and to cut it short I ended up in her bed as she wanted to snuggle – there was no kissing or sex what a waste! I gave it a shot with various methods to bring her around but she wouldn't respond. I figured id leave it at that and just ignore her and the situation would go away. Now since we work together it makes it a little tougher normally id call it a day and move on but when you see each other everyday its not so easy. As she kept talking to me at work id figure id give some of the cocky+funny stuff ago and it seemed to work ok – at all times I was 50/50 though in effort as I was concerned about getting to close to someone I work with. The current situation now is she is texting me frequently each day and wanting to go to lunch with me everyday at work. She is constantly telling me how she is breaking it off with some guy she is seeing – that talk is such a major turn off and bores me to hell. I listen to some of it but I don't really provide any advice to try and avoid the friend/therapy zone. Now to top it off I went by her house this week to pickup my jacket and yet again she asks me to sit in bed with her and then wants to cuddle and talk for hours on end... boring! I left and then the next day she comes to mine to stop in and I once again end up in the same situation but it gets worse the next night I stop by to say Hi and then again... same situation in bed her trying to cuddle me. Now I was getting very bored with it so I would roll over and ignore her only to have her come over and try and cuddle even more, I gave her some line about wanting to kiss me and she just laughed – in the end I thought this situation sucks so I just got up and said I am going home and walked out. To top it off she is always trying to give me a harsh time asking if I am a virgin and this and that I figure to try and intimidate me or something then again maybe she is just a bit nuts. I still continue to get stupid texts which turn into an endless conversation about nothing the worst thing is I find myself now trying to figure her out and maybe even start to like her. Now I am not totally stupid iv never told her if I liked her though we constantly play the wife/husband game and all sorts of nonsense. I find myself now in the situation with a girl who won't leave me alone but doesn't appear to be romantically interested. Then to add it I have met her mom (who really liked me) and told her that she would be happy for her to bring me home as a bf anytime. This is all too much so I want to either A) Seal the deal and get at least some sex out of this (at the moment this seems unlikely based on what I have achieved above) B) Get out of the situation (we work together so I would need to find a way to bring it down gradually) Any ideas? If you guys have ideas on both points that would be very handy obviously (A) would be the preference but if you think that time has passed then getting out of the situation would be great. Also please give me any advice on things I have done wrong (I am sure there are plenty! - I think maybe starting to pay too much attention to her?) and things I can improve upon. I am only new and still on my training wheels! Thanks |
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| Author: | bigpapaleone [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:13 am ] |
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man next time she tries to cuddle with u just reach up her shirt trust me |
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| Author: | blinkau [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:24 pm ] |
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Thanks for the tip I gave it a try but... nothing! I am beat on this one |
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| Author: | bigpapaleone [ Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:08 pm ] |
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well shyt maybe she just wants u to be a lil bolder u know u should invite her over and then walk out of the shower nekkid and see wht happens |
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