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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 5:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Always getting into arguments in clubs+girls in general |
First a little about myself. I am the type of guy that's straightforward+reasonable, and keeps the bullshit to a minimum. I'm the type that doesn't take any crap and let's himself get pushed around. I am not a nice guy, but I am a gentleman. I kiss girls on their hands, hold the doors for them, and I'm not all sexual in a vulgar way. However when I do set the sexual frame, I do it in a subtle manner in a way that James Bond would do. I'm more of a smooth talker, I approach girls elegantly and keep things simple, but unique from most guys. In conversations about love for example, I ask the girl to define love. Later I define it and say something like, "Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." OR I may say, "Love is the wind. You can't see it, but you can feel it." I don't get the damn deal why people still talk shit. I must say I am and act like an alpha male. I never get down to anyone's level, I take up space, I got the right body language, I confront people with logic to put them in their place, etc. Anyways, here is what happened at a club yesterday. This guy came up to me with 2 pretty girls. He said, "Kiss Mandy, she's pretty damn horny." I said, "I don't kiss any person I see." He said, "Kiss the pussy then, you won't see that HAHA." I said, "No thanks, you can have her." He said, "I fuck girls everyday dumbshit, I'm just a godsend for you." I said, "Listen to me. No need to become childish with me. Fucking girls everyday does not make you more of a man and if you think it does, it is because a lot of sex is the only way to help you get over all the other insecurities in your life." And then him and the girls began to bitch at me. One of the girls told me, "Just shut the fuck up! You're so annoying." I told her, "I say what I want, when I want, and how I want. Who do you think you are?" She said, "For your fucking info, I already got a boyfriend so mind your own business." I said, "Look. Talking like that to me, just made you sink at least 10 levels below me. No one, including me, would ever go for a girl like you with such a terrible personality so let's not get ahead of ourselves over here." And then I began to walk away and I said, "Nice manners by the way." I could hear her choking on words as soon as I turned my back and the guy was then saying, "Gay faggot, I'll fuck you up any day." So I turned around and went up into his face, looking down at him with my shoulders pulled back and I said, "Excuse me, what did you say?" And then the guy was beginning to get all quiet and turning red but as soon as he was going to say something, one of the girls told me, "Get the fuck out you loser." And at that point I just figured they all had mental issues and I said, "Look, you're all in the wrong place, an asylum is where you all should have went besides this club. I don't know what to say, but no guy would ever go for crazies like you." Now on facebook, I use this photo of me as my profile picture: ![]() Anyways, a lot of girls call me out and say things like, "Fake." Or "That's not you." I am a bit unsure on what types of responses are best for something like that. I know some mature ones and some cocky ones but I don't know which one is best. Mature: -Ok -Alright -You are free to believe whatever you want Cocky: -Whatever floats your boat -Whatever fits your tits -You haven't seen many guys like me have you |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 5:21 pm ] |
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How come bitchy girls don't understand logic or reason? When I confront a bitchy girl, I don't call her a cunt or anything like that or start saying random crap about her that's not even true. Instead I judge her by the way she acts and tell her off in a polite, gentleman-like manner. Even when being an alpha male and showing superiority and maturity+dominance, these girls still won't budge. |
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| Author: | Archangel32 [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:06 pm ] |
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You got sucked into a petty argument with them and didn't exhibit alpha male behavior at all. Instead of turning around and arguing with him, you should have made him your best friend! When he said "I fuck girls every day dumbshit..." THAT is when you should put your arm around him and asked him for some advice, like "Hell yeah man! Listen to this story...I met this girl the other day...". Do it in a subtle mocking manner so that he thinks you're serious but so the girls can tell you're fucking with him. You got sucked into a stupid fight by arguing back and mistakenly thinking he was worth your time. An alpha male knows that no other guy is worth his time in a verbal argument, and won't be afraid to play along with the confronting (probably drunk) guy to make him look like even more of an idiot. |
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| Author: | _Manna_ [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:16 pm ] |
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well point one thats not you, ive seen that in a polo ad before point two if you act like that its no big deal, those people sound unreasonable and/or just drunk. |
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| Author: | cutflow [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 11:09 pm ] |
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idk the style of the way your talking is hmmmmm way to hard. you are going way to hard and serious on the girls. i think you should losen up and go with the flow. things cant always be how you want them to be. 2nd. if they think its a fake picture, then take more pictures doing random shit. job done! but yeah your going way to hard on the girls, mayb a bit cooler and you never know you might have found the right chick that you have thought so many things you wanted to say as being the "alpha male, straight, judge and say what you think about them" most girls dont want to know what you think about them, because what you think about them might be a weakness that they know its true and they know act that way or is like that with guys. you can make a girl change so soon, make them fall in love with you, then you'll change them a little and have them act different. dont do it in the beginning. so in conclusion, you are just going way to hard on girls, judging wayyyy to much. actually go one day without using the words "**i think your** this/that" and you'll see the difference. judge = your against the girl non-judge = your interested in the girl and want to get to know her |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 12:40 am ] |
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Quote: well point one
Yeah, that's me in the polo ad from New York. thats not you, ive seen that in a polo ad before point two if you act like that its no big deal, those people sound unreasonable and/or just drunk. Cutflow, you're right, I am very judgmental, but also in a technical way. I actually research body language and graphology (judging from handwriting) so I can know all the secret language going on with the subtle signals. However, I tell girls what they don't want me to tell them only if they mess around with me in a bad way where they don't have respect. When I girls confront me, I don't insult them or anything. I figured the best way is to show you're strong and not back down (different from retaliating) and that's through judging them. It's the best way to make an impact upon them because after the encounter they will go home thinking about "That one guy." When that guy was telling me things, I politely responded without judging anyone up until he really got worked up. I am pretty cool, very relaxed, I walked in there with a good mood. This guy explains it best: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hMZIrCp ... re=related |
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| Author: | _Manna_ [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:23 am ] |
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I don't think so brotha, just looked you up and you're 19 and definitely not living anywhere near New York. You're a gamer. |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:14 pm ] |
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No Manna, I'm 21 and Ralph Lauren headquarters are in NY. I began modeling in high school, I keep my profile on facebook hidden (meaning you can't search for it). |
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| Author: | HighTide [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 8:24 pm ] |
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LMAO, you're lying about yourself to internet people who dont know a thing about you. -___- SUSPICIOUSSS! |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 11:43 pm ] |
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I don't lie, people just want to throw me into the average person category based on generalizations. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:41 pm ] |
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Quote: I don't lie, people just want to throw me into the average person category based on generalizations. Based on what generalizations?Quote: Cutflow, you're right, I am very judgmental, but also in a technical way. I actually research body language and graphology (judging from handwriting) so I can know all the secret language going on with the subtle signals. For a guy that suppose to know such things you handle that situation terrible. You could have handled it way better than you did by literally saying your not interested and walking away. But you didn't you instead on insisting on standing your ground and getting into a stupid petty argument over what? Also work on being less judgmental, it will help you socially as your social skills need work.Quote: However, I tell girls what they don't want me to tell them only if they mess around with me in a bad way where they don't have respect. When I girls confront me, I don't insult them or anything. And yet you did insult one of the girls in your oringal post, to quote: "Look. Talking like that to me, just made you sink at least 10 levels below me. No one, including me, would ever go for a girl like you with such a terrible personality so let's not get ahead of ourselves over here." You might as well called her an ugly bitch while you where at it.Quote: I figured the best way is to show you're strong and not back down (different from retaliating) and that's through judging them. Your so far off your not even close. What would you do if I judge you? What would you do? Would you get all egoistical on me and try to be all manly and so call alpha in your view or would you try and kill the tension? You see you can't just say what ever and think you can get away with it as one day it will bite you in the ass. What if you threw an insult at a Ralph Lauren executive who knew your face? Bye bye job. You seriously need to work on your social skills big time as you could have handle this stupid petty argument way better than you did. You could have just say "sorry not interested" and literally walked away, but no you had to throw a stupid comment back at the guy.Quote: It's the best way to make an impact upon them because after the encounter they will go home thinking about "That one guy." When that guy was telling me things, I politely responded without judging anyone up until he really got worked up. So you just antagonize the guy because you could?Quote: I am pretty cool, very relaxed, I walked in there with a good mood. If that was the case i would can't imagine what you are like when you are not.
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