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Author:  Straight Up [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:  playing hard to get?

ok so how do you get a girl thats playing hard to get and tries to make you jealous...

How would you get a girl like this? i was thinking of taking up on her challenge and getting and talking to loads of random girls when shes about or is that a bad idea and are there any good routines?

Author:  Keera [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:20 pm ]
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Talking to random girls when she's around? That's childish, and it'll make you look more like an asshole than anything else. Keep in mind that girls play these games all the time, and often they do it to gauge your degree of attraction towards her. In her mind, she is expecting you to be jealous- and when you start showing signs of jealousy ie: talking to random chicks in her presence, you're really just devaluing herself because you've somehow proven her right. What you need to do in this situation is to keep a cool and confident demeanor, and continue to talk to her and try to set up get-togethers. This will show her that you're a man who knows what he wants- and if that doesn't get a response, then she's just not worth your time.

Author:  Endimion [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:25 pm ]
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Yeah Keera basically covered it. Ideally, the girl should be chasing you, so if she's trying to play jealousy games, if anything, i would say it's an oppertunity to do what other guys wouldn't. Act like it doesn't phase you, continue to be confident, calm, well put-together.

Although if you're wanting to turn the tables eventually, that i'm still confused on how to do.

Author:  Mind Hacker [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:33 pm ]
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I'm in this situation.

She says she's busy, but I know she has time because she goes to bars with her friends.

So I know she's playing hard to get.

Here's what I did:
After trying 3 weeks for setting up dates and she playing hard to get I basically bailed it out and deleted everything she gave me (online messages, etc).

She tried to talk to me oinline, we talked, but I suggested meeting in person to talk.

She called me trying to make the call enough and keep playing hard to get, I talked to her and in the end said we should meet to talk otherwise we're wasting our times. She agreed to meet.

I'll call her tomorrow to set up a meeting.

I'll let you guys know how it works.

Author:  Straight Up [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 9:02 pm ]
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Ok cheers guys, I just text her a few hours ago, if she don reply what would u do? Just ignore her it facebook her asking if her mobiles still broken? If no reply again it's onto the next girls for me and of she flakes me or says she can't meet me 2 times I'll do what mind hackers doing

And yes please keep me posted on how it goes for you mind hacker

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