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| Author: | TheDude_87 [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I can't stand them! |
This is not a technical question, it's sort of an outlet. Maybe (or hopefully) because of the changes I'm undergoing, I can't stand my old friends anymore: I find them boring and bragging. So I often I refuse to go out with them but...on the other hand...this forces me to solo-sarge. Though I'm making some progresses in solo sarging I am stuck to speaking to the bartender or to some old buddy at the counter: I haven't opened set at tables and I'm clueless how to do it effectively. I'm really mad at this! It's very frustrating not only losing the old company but also not being able to do without it! Sorry for the outburst. Any feedback is welcome! Thanks. |
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| Author: | coolhandjay [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 3:53 pm ] |
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I understand you. This can be a complex situation to be in. Your outlook on yourself and others can definitely change when you really take hold of a PUA lifestyle or even to a lesser extent... have began the journey of transforming yourself into a better man. As you evolve and mature into a more powerful, self confident, and fun guy, you are more observant of other men (in your example, male friends) and what they lack. I went through the same thing. Honestly, it's ok. Although a bit frustrating and a little sad, for your chances of survival you feel the need to align yourself with other men that share in your beliefs and sense of adventure. I hate to use the term "better men", but it sure sounds like that. One thing you mustn't do here is dismiss these friends or belittle them. But, "moving on" and developing a higher class of friend with alot more substance behind them can just be part of the process. They're better, so they make you better. Think of how many times you go through sets of friends in your life? The great ones stick, but sometimes.. it can be 'out with the old, in with the new'. This is the stage in your life when you stop "faking it, to make it" and actually practice being a healthy outgoing, humorous, 'go-get-em' alpha and begin surrounding yourself with higher quality people with high moral value. Think of them as your "team fun" and you're the "team fun's leader"... "Captain awesome". Get out, do softball leagues, do martial arts, get better co-workers, go find cool people who are attracted to you, and you to them. |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 4:28 pm ] |
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Im totally in the same boat. All my mates are getting engaged or are married now but the mere thought of gettin married etc just sickens me as im not in that place yet. I cant stand the whole coupley thing they all got goin on, you know the whole lets do dinner, or whatever. They have all become so fuckin dull n boring. |
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