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| Author: | lightofhatred [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Friendzoned by Borderline Personality Disorder (cluster B) |
Hey guys. Long story short; a BPD didn't talk to me because she got all the attention she craved and completely devalued me. Now she wants me back to string me a long for attention (which I cannot ignore otherwise she will ignore me completely and get her attention fix of her boyfriend). What do I need to do? I'm thinking of... umm. Maybe give her good/negative attention @ 50/50 (good shes hooked; negetive shes devalued). Like at the same time (your looking good tonight but your acting like a complete fucking retard). She is making me a co-dependent friendzoned guy; because well BPD they have many male friends and LOTS friendzoned guys for backup (but they cheat like mental). Anyway look it up if you don't know. I'm so confused; BPD is so hard. We are ex's (6months; her new BF is 1month). I honestly just want sex @ a party with her that i'm going to. Any advice? Thanks guys |
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| Author: | Jav [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 1:45 am ] |
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stay away from the crazies |
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| Author: | Legit_ [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 2:13 am ] |
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Quote: stay away from the crazies
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| Author: | lightofhatred [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 2:58 am ] |
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Addicted to the crazies because I am a crazy "/ |
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| Author: | Miyako [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 12:17 pm ] |
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| Author: | Jelly [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 9:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Vaj wrote:
stay away from the crazies Quote: Addicted to the crazies because I am a crazy
what kind of crazy are you?also has she been diagnosed with bpd by a licensed therapist?? if not it could be you with the problem, or perhaps she has an illness that looks similar to bpd's symptoms like adhd, but the mechanisms are totally diff. |
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| Author: | lightofhatred [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 10:18 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Vaj wrote:
stay away from the crazies Quote: Addicted to the crazies because I am a crazy
what kind of crazy are you?also has she been diagnosed with bpd by a licensed therapist?? if not it could be you with the problem, or perhaps she has an illness that looks similar to bpd's symptoms like adhd, but the mechanisms are totally diff. Yeah it's also me with the problem; we sorta 'bounced' off each other in a sense. Was great fun but I don't have time anymore "/ And the trouble caused was a BIG waste of time as well. She isn't worth that much time. She has a councilor; a physiologist, had a 'mental illness' she said but she never told me what it was, her dad abandoned her at a young age; yeah I'm not stupid. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 11:15 pm ] |
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I just broke up with a girl who told me about a month in that she had this same condition, which made a lot of sense because I thought she was playing a lot of games but actually she was just fucked in the head. I would advise you to STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM THE CRAZIES. However hot she is (mine was a solid 9, natural D breasts, 5 foot 11 in flats, perfect hourglass figure, perfect skin, thin but not too thin, and when she was in a good mood a really sparkling, fun no-bullshit personality), there's another girl even hotter who's totally sane, friendly and fun. Go find her instead. Take my advice from someone who's actually BEEN THERE. |
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| Author: | Alpha Draconis [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friendzoned by Borderline Personality Disorder (cluster B) |
Quote: Hey guys.
Dude, I was involved with a BPD, and that was a complete f*cking nightmare... one I'm glad I woke up from.Long story short; a BPD didn't talk to me because she got all the attention she craved and completely devalued me. Now she wants me back to string me a long for attention (which I cannot ignore otherwise she will ignore me completely and get her attention fix of her boyfriend). What do I need to do? I'm thinking of... umm. Maybe give her good/negative attention @ 50/50 (good shes hooked; negetive shes devalued). Like at the same time (your looking good tonight but your acting like a complete fucking retard). She is making me a co-dependent friendzoned guy; because well BPD they have many male friends and LOTS friendzoned guys for backup (but they cheat like mental). Anyway look it up if you don't know. I'm so confused; BPD is so hard. We are ex's (6months; her new BF is 1month). I honestly just want sex @ a party with her that i'm going to. Any advice? Thanks guys The BPD loves to friendzone guys because it drives that final nail in the coffin by saying, 'You're not man enough to be my boyfriend'. And there you are -- thrown into her friendzone dungeon with the rest of her spineless man servants -- watching as she rubs her new rebound r/s in your face, or flirts with/screws her man servants to get under your skin. Don't ever go there no matter how hot the BPD is, it will only f*ck you up even worse. Walk away, never look back. |
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| Author: | ProfessorX [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 8:48 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: stay away from the crazies
Quote: Addicted to the crazies because I am a crazy "/ |
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| Author: | SBFC [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:09 pm ] |
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I seem to be constantly attracted to the crazies or the broken girls.... my last girlfriend ended up being bipolar, depressed, having abuse issues... all of these i found out when we had broke up :/ |
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| Author: | Forcan [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:39 pm ] |
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Borderline... This is a terrible thing to encounter. They drain you and leave nothing but an empty shell. Please stay away for you own sake. On the other hand, the borderline girl i new, and was my one-itis for 4 years made me want to learn how to game.. However it was the blackest part of my life... Stay away from borderline, please. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:34 am ] |
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complete nightmare. see my thread "emotionally manipulative women" in the relationship section. it was inspired by a run-in with a woman who has BPD. |
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| Author: | Alpha Draconis [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:35 am ] |
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Quote: I seem to be constantly attracted to the crazies or the broken girls.... my last girlfriend ended up being bipolar, depressed, having abuse issues... all of these i found out when we had broke up :/
You're from South Yorkshire; was your GF from Yorkshire too? ...reason I ask is because my BPD ex was from West Yorkshire, and I was on a BPD support forum, and many victims of borderlines were from Yorkshire also, and so were their ex's. Interesting. |
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| Author: | Alpha Draconis [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 12:41 am ] |
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Quote: Borderline... This is a terrible thing to encounter. They drain you and leave nothing but an empty shell. Please stay away for you own sake.
110% agree with this... never encountered anything so evil and soul reaving in my existence. If anything comes close to a real life vampire, then the BPD most definitely is it. On the other hand, the borderline girl i new, and was my one-itis for 4 years made me want to learn how to game.. However it was the blackest part of my life... Stay away from borderline, please. God help the new guy she's with; that guy should have stayed off the moors and stuck to the road. |
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