I just need a few concepts confirmed before I can start my mission.
It is not neccessary to read all these introductory crap, this is only to give backround information and for me to have a little cry.
Basically I'm a AFG in high school and don't have extreme confidence around women (I wouldn't approach a random on a bus or train for eg.) but can definitely talk to many in school, I'm quite popular amongst them at times but over recent months I have fcked up a bit.
While completely new to this whole PUA thing there was a time when I had two girls texting me and showing signs of attraction, let's call them A and B
. Now A, I didn't have attraction for, she wanted my number and was calling me but I got akward and was interested in the other one and if I pursued along the right path i could have easily had her, possible even without any PUA knowledge. But anyway we're still good friends and she now has a bf.
B also asked for my number, wanted to sit next to me (even when it meant leaving her friends) and showed what I thought was signs of attraction. Then I really fked up when trying to ask her out and things got cold, I got rejected and things have gone very downhill from there.
I've been rejected again recently but this time I handled myself in a less wussy manner but here's what I need to know.
Does masturbation help or hinder being a PUA?
After rejection does your "value" decrease amongst girls and guys? (i know it seems obvious just making sure)
Now here's my mission, this is embarrassing but;
I want to do all the "1sts" (including kissing) win girl "B" even though she rejected me and get back on top of my life.
Tell me if this sounds like a good plan,
1. stop wanking
2. Read, 'verusian arts handbook' and 'the game'
3. Start boxing (i am already very fit but i need it to improve my confidence amongst guys, in order to be an alpha male)[/i]