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Author:  supmag [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 7:23 pm ]
Post subject:  "I don't like you as more than a mate though."

I am fucked? this girl at college, She was like what do you think of me so I told her, and she told me what she thought of me she said "well you've got a nice personality and that, but i don't like you as more than a mate though.. " I'm fucked? she is imature, and she's 16 and I am also 16 years of age.

Author:  Roz [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 9:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "I don't like you as more than a mate though."

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I am fucked?
Yes
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She was like what do you think of me so I told her
And this is why.


The minute you confess your feelings to her, you lose all appeal. Next time, say something like: "Haha, you're cute, but you're not my type ;)"

And the reason she asked you this question in the first place is because you're giving her too much attention- hence she's already caught on that you like her, and it's making her uncomfortable.


-Roz

Author:  supmag [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 9:17 pm ]
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but i told her, "You're cute, I would probaly date you If you was more mature" O_O same thing no?

Author:  Legit_ [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 11:05 pm ]
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No.

Self-deprecation is 90% of the time a terrible idea.

Admitting that you would date someone before you reach the hook point (especially),
or verbalizing that you would date them AT ALL isn't a good idea.

You don't ever want to make the point that you're into them VERBALLY. Verbals are for being playful and to make sure that your non-verbals are received well as you escalate.

Author:  supmag [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 7:20 am ]
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Oh is that so, O_O i'll keep that in mind :). So should I just leave this girl and move on? I do see her everyday, so it won't be hard to game her since she;s really comfortable with me now.

Author:  taylormade [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 8:43 am ]
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keep her as a friend. If nothing else you will get to meet her friends and don't make the same mistakes with the friends...

Author:  supmag [ Thu Nov 25, 2010 7:52 pm ]
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Ok, thanks for the help guys :)

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