hey uhm
I got this question.
Im a freshman at college, everyone in my year just starts to get to know each other.
There is this semi afc at college. I think he's nice, he's friendly. I call him John.
He chased this girl, who was one of the most beautiful girls at college.. He went on a date with her, and kissed with her at a party.
Then after a while the girl needed space and before they were even in a relationship with each other the girl had sex with some smooth guy on a fun-weekend where John was as well.
Yeah, that situation sucks for him. I tried to help him a little.
But that hot promiscuous girl is friends with another hot girl I like. I'm playing it slow with that girl, cuz we'll be seeing each other for prolly the next 4 years.
We had fun a little, I sense she kinda likes me. She's interested. Things are relaxed
She even asked me if she could come watch me play basketball next weekend.But now things are going fucked up. John needed a new target, and he chose my target. He asked her out to his upcoming prom, and she agreed.
I also saw pictures on facebook from last weekend, where he and my target were. He was like on almost every pic where my target was as well.
I did see however that my target is a little bit distant from him in terms of body language.
But today I was a little afc myself. And when I walked outside I saw John talking with my target again.
I walked just passed them, and while I was talking to a friend I saw them going home together
Which really raises my concern.
How do I deal with the situation from here, also what to do when she comes watching my game?
pff Im lost here.