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| Author: | Pierce 007 [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why do I make girls shy? |
It seems to me I can make a connection after an opinion opener but cant make them feel relaxed enough to ask me anything and they usually need a mate to be with them to come near me and then they act all daft and girly am I coming on too strong and is there a way I can biuld comfort for her somehow and what is it usually that guys do wrong to make a girl feel like this? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:12 pm ] |
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If you're opening indirectly, then it has to be casually, over the shoulder, with your body language pointed away initially, then more towards them as the conversation progresses. Remember to KINO. Some lines you could throw out there: "there's no need to be nervous, it's cute" "don't say anything, you're cute and you'll just screw it up" "you're not from around here are you" There's nothing wrong with them acting a bit nervous, it means you're generating sexual tension. The trick is to harness it towards a close by escalating properly. If you lead the interaction confidently, she'll take your lead and hopefully not be too all over the place. |
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| Author: | Pierce 007 [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:05 pm ] |
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When you take lead I find with single girls DHV always sounds like bragging, am learning to do kino but what else can you do after opinion opener and kino in the convo if your not highering your value to get her to go do what you want. Is compliance the next step and is it workable without dhv-ing? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 7:41 pm ] |
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Quote: When you take lead I find with single girls DHV always sounds like bragging, am learning to do kino but what else can you do after opinion opener and kino in the convo if your not highering your value to get her to go do what you want. Is compliance the next step and is it workable without dhv-ing?
A DHV story should be a story that indirectly hints at attractive qualities. You don't actually say "yeah I have loads of friends and an expensive house," you say "oh I had this really wild party at my house the other day, I had like 40-50 people over and I was really fun..." etc.A better way to DHV, rather than telling a story, is to show mastery of a subject, especially one she's interested in. If you can move the conversation towards psychology, which women love talking about, and then tell her about herself with a cold read, then maybe talk about male/female dynamics in general, and then SEX, you're good! You want to test for compliance and always be moving up the compliance ladder. So, start small - does she allow you to talk to her, does she respond, does she move towards you if you move away, will she hold your drink for you, will she play the "trust test" kino game, will she walk with you outside for a smoke, will she dance closely with you, will she allow you to kino escalate past friendly to sexual, etc. |
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| Author: | Pierce 007 [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 9:32 pm ] |
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Hey yeah im really into how people work so the psychology approach on male female interaction chat that could easily lead into sexual connotations could really work. Obviously if you use a subject that your really into wrather than one you think would work and research just for this end is bound to be more spontaneous and natural especially for guys who are a bit green at socializing with strangers - cool- ta blond guy will research and try out |
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