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| Author: | Thisnamewontfi [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am I friend zoned? |
There is this girl that I work with, we talk occasionally, and when we do it always ends in a good laugh. Recently she's been calling me her boyfriend, and after asking what she wanted to do for Thanksgiving, she promptly said, "You!". Sure, she could certainly be joking...but I don't know how to advance from this stage. |
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| Author: | Afc4Life [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 4:47 pm ] |
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Only way to find out is to ask her out somewhere. See how that ends, i don't see why she would be joking when calling you her bf. If she was joking about thanksgiving well then we still know whats on her mind  Take her somewhere and at the end if it goes well k-close her and tell her she will get the rest on thanksgiving. Unless you are both extremely horny 
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:45 pm ] |
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The only way to find out if you're friendzoned is to sexually escalate past "friendly" touching with push-pull kino, and see how compliant she is. Sounds like she wants you to fuck the shit out of her to me... |
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| Author: | GKS [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:34 pm ] |
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Agree. If a girl tells you she want you for thanksgiving, you can rest assure even if she means it as a joke, it's still a green light. Just be C&F and throw her a loop to see if she jumps it. |
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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:53 pm ] |
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Sexual aggression from women can sometimes be confusing since its often so rare. You wonder if she is just fucking with you or if she is serious. Its rare for women to be that sexually confident and fearless. The best way to respond is to be funny. For instance you can say: "So you think I'm just a piece of meat?" or "What part of me do you want?" Its a strange dynamic when women position themselves as the chaser. If you give in too fast you actually come off as a wimp because it sends the message that you were interested all along and didn't have the balls to make a move. However, if you resist right away you might lose the opportunity. So the best approach is the tease and joke without making your interest clear to her right away until you can figure out how serious she is. |
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| Author: | Thisnamewontfi [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 11:56 pm ] |
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Great feedback from everyone, thanks! I'm going away for a week or so, I'll connect with her when I see her again. Thanks again! If you have anymore feedback, just shoot it here |
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| Author: | Jay dog [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 5:04 am ] |
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Kino and DHV that all i can say 
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| Author: | theeric13 [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 5:27 am ] |
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You gotta stop doubting yourself man. That's a pretty obvious sign. Have her come meet your for drinks. Just act natural, casual, but be more physical. As in, fap her thigh or shoulder or something when you're emphasizing something you're talking about or teasing her. Make more eye contact, and while you do, smile a bit. She'll prob smile back some, blush, look away. Any of that means she's interested. While you leave guide her a bit by her lower back, and find a good time to pull her in for a kiss. If that falls apart somewhere down the line, just move on to someone else. |
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| Author: | icebear [ Fri Nov 26, 2010 8:24 am ] |
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she said she wanted you as her thankgiving present, then, you can ask her which part of you she wants as the gift, just one part available. with a joking voice. need not clarify her meaning, she even don't know it herself. ladies' attitude always confuses with their emotion. if you can meet her in non-working time, that is a date, man, that means you have a great deal of chances to finish her in the bed. |
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