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Author:  solver [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  How to response
I have no idea what i should response in this situation:

me: you seem to be interesting person and i would like to get to know more about you. let's go to ...

she: but i don't wanna get to know more about you.

what should i response?
Author:  Danny_pt [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:21 am ]
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what was the context of this conversation? were you with her or did you message her on facebook or smthing?
Author:  solver [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:24 am ]
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just talking with her and her best friend near the school, noone else heard us.
Author:  zack89 [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:29 am ]
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I wouldn't use this line at all. The only situation I can think of is in comfort stage but by then you should already know if she likes you.

Looks to me you didn't build enough attraction. Next to that I would more use a line like: "I'm doing some shit tomorrow with my mates, if you want you can come." This doesn't sound so needy + it doesn't sound like you want a date or anything. If she responds with "No, I don't want too." You can just say: "No problem, I'll catch you later."
Author:  Danny_pt [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:32 am ]
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ok, what did you say?

i think she was showing off to her friend by turning you down.

you could say:
"wow it was fast getting to know you..basically you're just antipathetic"

if she's a decent girl she'll apologize. its my opinion
Author:  solver [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:32 am ]
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ok, i know that it was my mistake to ask it, but please tell me about THAT situation.
What should i have respond after her answer?
Author:  Danny_pt [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:34 am ]
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zack89 is right
Author:  solver [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:39 am ]
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zack89 - i did talk with her before and conversation seemed to be good ;)
i have already used negs and just only one compliment
Author:  tylo [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 5:22 am ]
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You could have responded by saying "Your loss" then walk away.
Author:  solver [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:48 pm ]
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You could have responded by saying "Your loss" then walk away.
too offensive, what's more, she could answer me: "I know that i lost/miss nothing"
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:43 pm ]
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NEVER EVER USE THAT LINE AGAIN!

That's the first step.. You let you body language an manner say things like that you never say them directly. Let the chicks talk like that

Step 2 : Drop it an game other chick, she obviously gave you the BOOT.

Jus never say that again an you'll be fine.

I'm girl language that meant " you really have a lot of value an if you let me hang out with you I'll feel better"

Would super man, SPAM or your favorite movie actor ever say ghat to a chick ?

Alpha dude Alpha

Fuze
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:44 pm ]
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NEVER EVER USE THAT LINE AGAIN!

That's the first step.. You let you body language an manner say things like that you never say them directly. Let the chicks talk like that

Step 2 : Drop it an game another chick, she obviously gave you the BOOT.

Jus never say that again an you'll be fine.

In girl language that meant " you really have a lot of value an if you let me hang out with you I'll feel better"

Would super man, SPAM or your favorite movie actor ever say that to a chick ? :p

Superheros are great seducers btw..(the muster about who they really are ;]) figure it out. There is a post about it somewhere
Alpha dude Alpha

Fuze
Author:  solver [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 5:36 pm ]
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so how should i have asked her to gou out with me?
@Fuze - it seems that you wanna tell me: "never ask her go out, she will do it", it's ridiculous.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:16 pm ]
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Quote:
NEVER EVER USE THAT LINE AGAIN!

That's the first step.. You let you body language an manner say things like that you never say them directly. Let the chicks talk like that

Step 2 : Drop it an game other chick, she obviously gave you the BOOT.

Jus never say that again an you'll be fine.

I'm girl language that meant " you really have a lot of value an if you let me hang out with you I'll feel better"

Would super man, SPAM or your favorite movie actor ever say ghat to a chick ?

Alpha dude Alpha

Fuze
I disagree. If said with confidence, that line says that you're honestly interested in the girl as a person. If you are coming from a position of assumed higher or equal value, then it's a perfectly reasonable compliment. I would use it as a direct daygame opener.

HOWEVER. In general, social circle game is better done more indirectly. This is simply because going direct is generally riskier and you will get blown out more, it's just the the sets that stick, you're basically guaranteed that you're IN. Now, on the street with random girls, it doesn't matter if you get blown out because you'll never see them again. If you go direct with your friends of friends, you risk being "that guy who hits on all my girlfriends" which can lower your social value.

My advice would be to field test that exact thing with strangers during the day, saying it with a smile, confidently, and then transitioning into questions-as-statements, and to game your social circle indirectly.
Author:  kasabi [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:50 pm ]
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Quote:
Quote:
NEVER EVER USE THAT LINE AGAIN!

That's the first step.. You let you body language an manner say things like that you never say them directly. Let the chicks talk like that

Step 2 : Drop it an game other chick, she obviously gave you the BOOT.

Jus never say that again an you'll be fine.

I'm girl language that meant " you really have a lot of value an if you let me hang out with you I'll feel better"

Would super man, SPAM or your favorite movie actor ever say ghat to a chick ?

Alpha dude Alpha

Fuze
I disagree. If said with confidence, that line says that you're honestly interested in the girl as a person. If you are coming from a position of assumed higher or equal value, then it's a perfectly reasonable compliment. I would use it as a direct daygame opener.
I disagree. What does:
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you seem to be interesting person and i would like to get to know more about you. let's go to ...
mean anyway? What you're telling her HONESTLY is that she's so freaking boring that all you can think of is a generic compliment followed by a generic request to see her again. This is the kind of thing you would tell a girl after nodding your head at all her bullshit and forgetting everything she said while staring at her tits. "Uh, huh, uh huh . . . Interesting. So let's go to ______ so I can nod at your bullshit some more and see if I can do more than just stare at your titties."

Would you describe an incredible rock concert as "interesting" and "you'd like to seem more?" Would you describe snowboarding in the alps this way? . . . Scuba diving the Great Barrier Reef? Is this what you would write in your journal? "It was interesting . . ."

Guys, practice this:

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