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Author:  Danny_pt [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 2:45 pm ]
Post subject:  college girl...need some advice

hey, last thursday all the medical school freshman had dinner at a restaurant where alcohol was abundant lol almost everyone was drunk, but i managed not to drink so much.

When I was going to the bathroom, there were lots of people at the door and there was this girl, named Rebecca, who is one of the hottest girls in college (HB9) and i had never met her before but she knew my name...and she started talking to me about how well i presented the essay for the biochemistry class. As she was talking about that, i assumed she was still sober but than she started grabbing my hands and putting hers on my chest...she was clearly drunk and was all over myself and sudenly she kissed me

I let her kiss me because she was really hot but then I stopped...i didn't think it was right to get advantage of a drunk girl. For 30 minutes she kept asking me to go to the bathroom to make out, or more.. but i always refused.

As soon as i left her, her girl friends came up to me and said i was really nice for not screwing her up. But they also told me that the "sober rebecca" was a really cool girl and that she was into me...she even put me on the top10 guys in college.

The next day, rebecca sent me an sms thanking me for what i've done and apologizing for what she did that night.

What do i do now? Is it a good idea to ask her out or is she too embarassed? i'd like to know her better..

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 3:55 pm ]
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Tell her it was fun meeting "drunk rebecca" and you've heard good things about "sober rebecca" and would like to find out about her over a drink next week.

Have 2-3 locations set up, maybe a place for drinks and food first, then something more high energy, then a more casual lower energy venue that's close to your place. Remember to kino escalate as early as possible, using push-pull. Have a bit of banter first to get her laughing, then you can move right into qualification and comfort because you DEFINITELY have attraction. If you get her talking in the right way, you just have to sit there, ask a few questions at the right times, and she will talk herself into your bed.

Enjoy!

Author:  zack89 [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 4:51 pm ]
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Damn you're so fucking lucky to meet a girl like this. You probably build a lot of attraction before hand without knowing it. This can turn into a long lasting relationship. I would totally go with the advice of blondguy. It's fucking excellent advice, I couldn't say it better myself.

Author:  Danny_pt [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:23 am ]
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Tell her it was fun meeting "drunk rebecca" and you've heard good things about "sober rebecca" and would like to find out about her over a drink next week.

Have 2-3 locations set up, maybe a place for drinks and food first, then something more high energy, then a more casual lower energy venue that's close to your place. Remember to kino escalate as early as possible, using push-pull. Have a bit of banter first to get her laughing, then you can move right into qualification and comfort because you DEFINITELY have attraction. If you get her talking in the right way, you just have to sit there, ask a few questions at the right times, and she will talk herself into your bed.

Enjoy!
that's great man :P i think i'll take that advice. But here's a thing...when she was drunk she told she wanted to forget an ex-boyfriend. Is it relevant?

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 3:51 am ]
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that's great man :P i think i'll take that advice. But here's a thing...when she was drunk she told she wanted to forget an ex-boyfriend. Is it relevant?
NO.

DO NOT MENTION HIM

IF SHE BRINGS HIM UP, IGNORE HIM

SHE FUCKING LOVES YOU

SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU

ASSUME YOU'VE ACTUALLY ALREADY FUCKED HER.

Author:  Danny_pt [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 2:56 pm ]
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Have 2-3 locations set up, maybe a place for drinks and food first, then something more high energy, then a more casual lower energy venue that's close to your place.
can you give examples please? by "high energy" you mean something like a club?

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:00 pm ]
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Sure, so for example, it could be like this:

Location 1: Tapas place / Wine tasting / Pub that serves food / etc. Some place where you could just get a drink, but which also serves food. It makes it less like WE'RE GOING TO DINNER OMG DATE TIME. Casual, not super pricy. Split the bill or flip a coin for it, for fun.

Location 2: Carnival / fun fair / video arcade / bowling / bar with live bands / club

Location 3: chilled out lounge or bar / dessert cafe / any lower-energy venue that has comfortable seating i.e. couches so you can sit next to each other and TOUCH.

The basic principle is to respike your attraction levels in location 1 with some teasing, banter, DHV stories, jokes and so on, have a few drinks and relax, and then start in on your qualification and comfort building (i.e. get her talking about herself).

Location 2 is when you start ramping up the kino, getting her heart going a bit and creating some ENERGY. It's better than sitting in the same place for hours having a boring interview-style date.

Then location 3 is where you take that energy and turn it SEXUAL by sitting close together. You want to k-close in either location 2 or definitely by 3. If you use push-pull kino correctly, then the k-close should be a natural step in your escalation chain and you should already know she'll be receptive to it because she's exhibited compliance throughout as you've moved from friendly to sexual touching. Finally, location 3 should be as close to your house as possible, so that you can swing by for 5 minutes to lend her that CD you were talking about, but then she's gotta run cuz you have shit to do tomorrow ;-)

The principle is that the multiple locations have a "time-warp" effect that makes it seem like she's known you for longer. This shortcuts the 7 hour rule down to about 3 or so, which is always good. Plus, it's more fun, shows you know places and what's going on, and it takes her through a roller-coaster of different sensations and emotions, which are anchored to you.

Don't forget to wear a condom!

Author:  Danny_pt [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 8:37 pm ]
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Quote:
Sure, so for example, it could be like this:

Location 1: Tapas place / Wine tasting / Pub that serves food / etc. Some place where you could just get a drink, but which also serves food. It makes it less like WE'RE GOING TO DINNER OMG DATE TIME. Casual, not super pricy. Split the bill or flip a coin for it, for fun.

Location 2: Carnival / fun fair / video arcade / bowling / bar with live bands / club

Location 3: chilled out lounge or bar / dessert cafe / any lower-energy venue that has comfortable seating i.e. couches so you can sit next to each other and TOUCH.

The basic principle is to respike your attraction levels in location 1 with some teasing, banter, DHV stories, jokes and so on, have a few drinks and relax, and then start in on your qualification and comfort building (i.e. get her talking about herself).

Location 2 is when you start ramping up the kino, getting her heart going a bit and creating some ENERGY. It's better than sitting in the same place for hours having a boring interview-style date.

Then location 3 is where you take that energy and turn it SEXUAL by sitting close together. You want to k-close in either location 2 or definitely by 3. If you use push-pull kino correctly, then the k-close should be a natural step in your escalation chain and you should already know she'll be receptive to it because she's exhibited compliance throughout as you've moved from friendly to sexual touching. Finally, location 3 should be as close to your house as possible, so that you can swing by for 5 minutes to lend her that CD you were talking about, but then she's gotta run cuz you have shit to do tomorrow ;-)

The principle is that the multiple locations have a "time-warp" effect that makes it seem like she's known you for longer. This shortcuts the 7 hour rule down to about 3 or so, which is always good. Plus, it's more fun, shows you know places and what's going on, and it takes her through a roller-coaster of different sensations and emotions, which are anchored to you.

Don't forget to wear a condom!
hey, guess what! i'm going out with her this week :) she suggested having a coffee at a cafe near home but i know great pubs downtown with a view to the river. Should I accept her suggestion or stick with mine?

Another thing is, during the day, bars and clubs are closed and the only "high energy" activity we could do is bowling, but it is far from home and i dont have a car. Considering i'm just meeting her for coffee, should i kino escalate and k-close on this first date?

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:05 pm ]
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River view thing is better, try and hit at least 2 different locations. Try and make the date during the NIGHT if possible. ALWAYS kino, try and k-close somewhere secluded. I think if you're together looking out at the river that would be pretty damn romantic ;-) Have fun!

Author:  MarcusRobertson [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Coooooollege girls

i mean im from the UK but damn i love Oxford girls. Smart nnnnnnn prettay :)

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