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Author:  Straight Up [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:11 pm ]
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Ok, so if a girl invites you back to hers twice and you say you cant both times because your busy later on.. would she feel unwanted and forget about you?

And would you say something to her about it like.. "Dont worry, im pretty sure next time I see you youll have got enough points to deserve sex ;)"

What do you lot think?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 5:05 pm ]
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She may feel unwanted but if you sexually escalate next time she'll realise you're into her but that logistics were in the way last time. Also she'll probably be thinking about you in a good way. The points thing is fun, but maybe don't actually say "sex." Just say "enough points" and she'll know what you're hinting at ;-)
Author:  Straight Up [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 5:51 pm ]
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ok cheers mate, ill keep that in mind :)
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 6:12 pm ]
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yeah, like the points thing but blondeguy is right, dont actually use the word sex, she will get the message without it and its less brash.
Author:  Ezo [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:44 pm ]
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She will feel unwanted.

Maybe try to be a bit smoother than that. It is a very player thing to say... And players dont really talk like players. :)
Author:  AdamThomas [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:24 pm ]
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Don't use the points thing, it's weird... Just set it up yourself, and fuck her, or yeah she will forget about you and move on with someone who will seal the deal.
Author:  Straight Up [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 11:40 pm ]
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She will feel unwanted.

Maybe try to be a bit smoother than that. It is a very player thing to say... And players dont really talk like players. :)
I didnt go out in the end so next meet i should be able to :)

But if i cant at mine how should i ask her to go back to hers without actually saying it?

The bus doesnt go to mine after midnight though, so i could play it C&F saying "so am i staying at yours tonight then?"

She did say she wanted me to stay in her bed the other night when she heard my bus doesnt run though so maybe it will work? or what else could i say?
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 12:46 am ]
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"Me staying in your bed? You got terribly cold feet or something? No? Its settled then. I will make my camp in your bed."
Author:  AdamThomas [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 12:18 pm ]
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You don't need to use C&F, that will just make things weird. Stop trying to be over-gamey, she's asked you back to hers twice! She wants to fuck! If you go doing these C&F lines trying to act cool she's not gonna be impressed, she's gonna think you're weird, or scared to actually come out with the fact that you want to fuck her. By using C&F and pretending not to be interested you're going backwards, just simply invite her back to yours and fuck her :)
Author:  Ezo [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 1:15 pm ]
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The line I gave was designed for 2 things.

1. TO avoid him just jumping at the chance like some sex starved caveman.

2. TO release some of the pressure. There is pressure and drama around it now, just show her that it will only be fun!
Author:  Straight Up [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 11:54 am ]
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The line I gave was designed for 2 things.

1. TO avoid him just jumping at the chance like some sex starved caveman.

2. TO release some of the pressure. There is pressure and drama around it now, just show her that it will only be fun!
I did flake her the other night just to show im not exactly desperate to have sex with her

And yeah ill have to say something subtly so she dont think im some perv, were all going out friday again but she said shes going home early so i could try make my move then?

How should i do it if she dont invite me back? or i can tell her girls ill make sure she gets home alright and if she invites me in then im find, if not ill tell her ill see her some other time?

Or if i say that ill get her home ok is that like too obvious?

and i wont be able to take her home with me, but i can easily seal the deal round mine anytime in the day as my families always out then but if i invite her round she'll know im asking for sex..?
Author:  Roz [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:23 pm ]
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"Me staying in your bed? You got terribly cold feet or something? No? Its settled then. I will make my camp in your bed."
I like this a lot!
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I did flake her the other night just to show im not exactly desperate to have sex with her

Flaking her once is enough to show this... flaking twice? That may cause her to think you're scared to have sex with her, or that you don't have enough of a sex drive... and no one of the two is attractive to a girl. I know what's done is done, but just remember this in the future.


- Roz
Author:  ariana [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:14 pm ]
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just to show im not exactly desperate to have sex with her
you are tho.. see below
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try make my move then?
remove the word 'try'
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invites me
you are waiting for an invitation? do not wait to be 'invited'
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i'm asking for sex..?
is this like a gift she is going to bestow on you? you need to get this straight in your head or the way you consequently act and speak means she will not want you. in your head you need to be the prize, she needs to be asking you for sex, do not wait to be 'invited' make it clear you are taking her home and are staying over, if you have the balls to play your cards right whilst you are actually out on friday it will be a foregone conclusion
Author:  Straight Up [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 8:16 pm ]
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I'm pretty confident I'll be able to seal the deal Friday, in any case I know it's not just a one night thing for her cos were going to a bar just me and her before we meet up with everyone else, and yes she does know this lol
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