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Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 4:16 pm ]
Post subject:  rAFC in an hard situation, need help
Ok, so i met this girl at college, talked with her about 3, 4 times

In our first contact i sent an alpha vibe, but she seemed like a teaser, confident type (talks easily, is confortable with kino)

She liked my necklace a lot and is always teasing me with it, although we barely know each other

I tease her too and she is confortable with it, puts her head on my shoulder like its NOTHING. But 70% of the time his happens when she starts the interaction, since when its me starting, unless i ignore her before, she does not care much.
I added her on facebook, she comented my photos and then i sent her my email in a msg, witch she did not see -_-", comented her profile, she said nothing.

Today i was talking with ppl at the college garden when she appeared, i acted like she was not here, then she does pass by everyone, came from behind , tackled and picked on me. I told her to not do that and im not like her male friends, the she asked me to show the necklace (it is kinda scary), i did, she acted like she was in fear (joking). Then i told her to come near me, she did and i asked her to grab the necklace, she did, so i asked her what did it make her feel.

SHE: "donnu.... i feel you",
ME: "its very important for me"
SHE: "thats what is importat"

Then a mutual friend came, asking where did i get it, so he could get one too, i gave him more importance than to her, so she said "Ok" and left xD

The deal is: I got played a lot before in my AFC days, how can i deal with this?

Tnx
Author:  Jav [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 4:24 pm ]
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Check how her body reacts to your escalation, if you get very close and she stays->she likes you. If she moves away->you've got some work to do.



Hips don't lie




BTW, you wouldn't be posting here if you knew where you wanted to go with this girl.

What's up between you and her?

What's the plan?
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 7:30 pm ]
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yeah man. you dont really state yur intentions
Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 8:26 pm ]
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I am interested in her, but i will not allow any more girl to play with me.
I would rather have her ignore me than having her as a "friend" .
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 8:44 pm ]
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just neg her and tease her without ever showing a sexual interest in her (have you already?). at the same time i would be using dhv stories and games to attract her.

id say things like 'your funny, its a shame your not my type.'

if she is attracted to you, she will, most likely, try to qualify herself (why am i not your type? am i not pretty enough? whatever)

never get annoyed with her at any point, that shows she is getting to you. dont be hostile, be disinterested if she doesnt 'behave'.
Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 3:21 am ]
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After 2 days without talking to her, i did small chit-chat with her, asking why she did not come to last college party. Some hours later i met her and her best female friend in college, i gave attention to her friend, kinoed her on the hair and neck, and ignored her :p

Later, in the night i was talking to her friends, because one did not like me at first because i seemed cocky, but she found herself wrong. Then the HB joined, saying i have a special attitude, and she liked that. We (group) talked some more, and i said something she liked, and i she gave me an hi5. She asked me for an hug, which i refused. She told me i seemed more clean (in energy, by yinyang standards), and offered to give me a massage in my hairline and forehead. I asked her what it was for and she said "nothing, just something i had a feeling to do at the moment"

I then run the cube routine on her, which was above all transparent, so she was a genuine person. I told her, honestly that my first opinion on her was not that, she kinda lowered her eyes, and her friends told me she was very innocent. Then i gave her the hug she asked before.

Before leaving she came near me, and i tackled her slowly :p, she said "thats the way"

And then she left saying "goodbye kisses to all" >.<

Guys, i would really apreciate your help. Tnx
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 8:29 pm ]
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sounds like your doing fine mate although i would have maybe tried to isolate her and number close or bounce to another location for an insta-date (go for lunch, drinks, coffee)

its important you escalate your relationship with her before you fall into the friend zone. she sounds like shes ready for you to move it up a gear!
Author:  ShadoWSlash [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:11 am ]
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Tnx for your advice fife,

Ill escalate kino and confort, and then i go for a date.
Author:  fifeguy86 [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 3:20 pm ]
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as long as you dont use the word 'date' thats toxic vocabulary. she is used to guys asking for a date. ask her to go for shopping with you cos u like her style. i love going shopping with girls as a 1st date kind of thing. its great for building comfort too cos they love picking out clothes for you.
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