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Author:  Vizio [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 12:11 am ]
Post subject:  Getting IOIs from HB who keeps flaking?
- Met HB9 at the bar. Was introduced by a friend. We had a lot of things in common. We end up talking for half hour. My friend wanted to leave to meet up with some other girls so I grabbed her number and told her I had to go.

-Our text the next day consisted of the following:

Me: "Heyyy.. its the only girl in the world I know without a facebook."

HB9: "Hey is this _____?????" ( Nickname I told her only my family and good friends call me)

Me: "Lol yea"

HB9: "haha I know I am a huge losers with the facebook thing. I had so much fun with you last night! Where di you boys go afterwards."

Me:"I had a lot of fun also. We ended up at ____. What are you doing tonight??"

NO RESPONSE UNTIL NEXT MORNING = FLAKE

HB9: "I am actually really happy we played the question game. You need to watch that movie I told you about. And I wasn't ignoring you yesterday. I was busy babysitting a 14 month year old for a friend. Sorry. What did you do last night?"

- I leave her hanging for a few hours.

ME: "Yea I can't beleive I've never seen that movie. You're a good friend, thats my nieces age. I just went to my buddies then relaxed at home"

HB9: "____.. thats her name right?? She is adorable!! Those are my favorite type of nights. Just staying home. Did you drive home friday? I told you could have stayed at my house."

ME: "Yea she is amazing. I ended up staying at a friends house. I think ___ drove home though. SO back to the question game. Whats your favorite type of food??"

--END OF RESPONSES for the day = flake


I know I had some AFC moments. What do you guys think I should do about this? I am trying to arrange a day 2.
Author:  Afc4Life [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 12:31 am ]
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First be careful with saying this
ME: "Yea I can't beleive I've never seen that movie. You're a good friend, thats my nieces age. I just went to my buddies then relaxed at home"

Could lead to unwanted friendzoning.

also

HB9: "____.. thats her name right?? She is adorable!! Those are my favorite type of nights. Just staying home. Did you drive home friday? I told you could have stayed at my house."

C'mon man :? How can you not have gone xD. I say if you do end up getting a day 2 you defiantly need to kino a lot and escalate so "You're a good friend" becomes a "You're good in bed" :wink:
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 1:33 am ]
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She gave you green light to go home with her and you LJBF her?
Author:  Vizio [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 2:00 am ]
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Yea I didn't go home with her because I had another girl waiting for me at another bar. And my friend wanted to leave to meet up with a girl that happened to be the same place as the one I was going to meet.


HB9 texted me back so I guess she is not flaking.

HB9: "sorry i have been a brat all weekend. you have my full attention now."

Then a ton of more conversation just took place. Looking to set up day 2.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 2:24 pm ]
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Then a ton of more conversation just took place. Looking to set up day 2.
STOP TEXTING THE WHOLE FUCKIN TIME.

The question game = gay. What's you're favourite food? Really?

Set up a day2 immediately and STOP TEXTING SO MUCH.
Author:  Vizio [ Wed Nov 17, 2010 12:01 am ]
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Wow.. GIRL ENDED UP FLAKING on me for 3rd time...:mad::mad:

- Sent me messages yesterday: "ugh sitting traffic. hope your not experiencing the same traffic"

- Later IOI "Hey you!!!"

- bull shit talking in between

- My last message to her: "Hey have you ever been to ___ restaurant?? Its out in ___(by the gym she goes to that she was telling me about). We should go there this week sometime after work."

NOW COMES THE FLAKE



12 hours later the next morning...

"Hey I see your last message was at 10. I fell asleep befoer that. how sad. then i had training all morning. "

"I would love to meet up with ou but my weeek is crazy. I have something going on every night. One being battle of the bands. not sure about going to it."


SO I am taking the approach of just not responding and completely ignoring her???? but what if I told her something like

"Sorry I been busy the last couple days with work meetings and other stuff. That sucks youre so busy this week, you just went down 10 points in my rating scale."

We previously talked about ratings at the bar. and she told me i was doing pretty good on hers.
Author:  fontinella [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 1:06 am ]
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Yeah I've had the same thing happen with another chick. I see her around talk flirt, kino, we text sometimes and she always says we should hang out. She's always busy!
Author:  Nayail [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 2:04 am ]
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Quote:
but what if I told her something like

"Sorry I been busy the last couple days with work meetings and other stuff. That sucks youre so busy this week, you just went down 10 points in my rating scale."

We previously talked about ratings at the bar. and she told me i was doing pretty good on hers.
You're going to use her own game on her? Not very original and I don't think it'll work. If she'd used that line on me I'd have told her "yeah? I always do good, but you are sucking on my ratings" She's flaked 3 times, IN A ROW! MOVE ON! Flakey bitches don't deserve a 3rd chance, much less a 4th. There are too many others out there.

I agree with blondguy, I think there was way too much texting...
Author:  SRVisGod24 [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 10:25 am ]
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I really think you should move on dude. But if you were to pursue this, try one last time, and one last time only. Nayail, brought up a good point. Use his text. But I highly doubt that will even work, cause man, you blew it with this one
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Nov 19, 2010 1:27 pm ]
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You really LJBF'd her more than once.. Next time take the lay if she offers it, the other chick can wIt.. Heck it's a win win if your buddy says you left to kick it with someother friends.

You have to recongize wen a chicks come str8 foward an she was.

It sounds like shes immature playing little games that these girls do.. Dontlet it get to you..this isn't the kind of chick you want anything more than a lay from.

Text her this text today: I'm going out drinking tonight, its a good time to take you up on that slumber party"

Any thing of that sort insinuating you wanna sleep over. She should go for it, then invite her out for drinks... And for the record, ignoring a text is not considered flaking in the pua world.. You didn't even try an set up a day2. She has no Clue what your intentions are. I kno I don't always text my ""FRIENDS"" back right away. That's All she sees you as. Make it CLEAR

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