Maybe its just living in superficial Orange County, but the attractive womenmy age(23) here don't give you a second look unless u fit perfectly into one of the stereotyoes associated with the area. Im not that kind of guy, would kill myself if I ever became one, but if I can't escape the feeling that Im boring unless I dumb myself down and create an alternate persona, which also means I can never get serious with thos women.
The must humbling experience for me was hooking up with a milf I met at a bar while out with some buddies, shes a teacher, is smart and loves the true intellectual side of me. I tell her I love to cook, and it doesn't put her off because she'd rather eat at Olive Garden. For me atleast, I know my big problem is experience and lack of exposure to any kind of female encounters. Its interesting to be in a position where she likes you more than you like her, physically speaking I don't have a thing for milfs, but I figured why not. And as PUAs we chase women, having a woman chase you is a new perspective and a good one to have for what may come later in your life.
And going out with her definately draws some looks, which I love. But being with a woman, that u know you don't have to game 24/7 just keep her around gives you freedom to focus on other aspects your personal development. PUA experience is good, because I've already had 3 guys on 3 seperate occasions who were at least 5 years older and total alphas come in the group trying to game my girl... Knowing what I learned here I came out on top each time because I spotted their intensions. Even an alpha will lose interest and move on when you massage his targets thighs and make-out infront of them, after being nice, introducing yourself and throwing out some friendly compliments...
