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Author:  Mind Hacker [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  How to downplay the player vibe?
Hey guys!
What do you do when a girl is afraid of hooking up with you because she's afraid she'll get jealous with all the girls calling you?
Author:  Dev [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:34 pm ]
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A similar(ish) thing happened me last year. I told her that all the other girls was me keeping my options open, trying to find the one special girl, my soulmate (jazz it up however you like)- but when you find this one person then all those other girls will be out of the picture. Around the same time your saying this say something that hints that she has a good chance of being that special girl.

When i did it I used a very very subtle hint and it worked well for me- though I have to say (because I learned the hardway- and I wouldnt wish this on anyone) this will set her up for some long term relationship love stuff :shock:
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 4:37 pm ]
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I told her that all the other girls was me keeping my options open, trying to find the one special girl, my soulmate (jazz it up however you like)- but when you find this one person then all those other girls will be out of the picture. Around the same time your saying this say something that hints that she has a good chance of being that special girl.
Yeah this is good. Say you're open to commitment in the future but you need to get to know someone first. If that future girl has the right qualities, then you're totally willing to just be with her. Then you can talk about what those qualities are, and boom, she's qualifying herself to you and will be actively trying to do those things to keep you. Welcome to the world of qualification and compliance ;-) Now you just give her a few honest compliments about those things about her personality that you like, do a bit of comfort building, and you're golden.
Author:  ImNaShitFool [ Fri Nov 12, 2010 9:45 pm ]
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shes not confident she'll be able to keep u..

qualify her..

"your not like all these other girls because ___"

but only after u get ioi's first, dont be thirsty..

actually, u could screen her.. as somewhat of a compliance test..

N say something like..

Bait: "all these girls like me, but they all want the same thing.. I hate that shit"

Here she might qualify herself.. like "yeah, I hate that too, im not like that blah blah blah"

or she might not, n if that happens, u screen her for how shes different & act enthusiastic about what she says makes her different...
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