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| Author: | musiclaproducer [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | The Infamous "Friend Zone" |
Hey everyone, So basically my questions is pretty simple. How do you prevent the Infamous "Friend Zone" situation? Im 18, VERY social, etc, etc. I get along with just about anyone but when it comes to girls I almost ALWAYS end up in the Friend Zone situation and Im still trying to figure out why. I question if Im TOO bubbly, etc or too open. I also wonder if my intentions aren't set soon enough with SPAM. I ask you all for any advice you have and it would mean a lot. All the best. About me: Posted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 8:59 am Post subject: New to the game...need advice Hey everyone, So heres the scoop. Im 18, Im a Music Producer/Writer and I live in LA. I've had a lack of confidence with girls my entire life and have always have an awful time making things happen. In my career, with friends etc, I have ounces of confidence but when it comes to girls I fall FLAT on my face.. I tend to end up in a few similar situations EVERY time I approach a girl or DONT approach a girl and I figured Id come to you all and see if you could help me figure out what Im doing wrong. 1. Im afraid to make a move at all. - I see a girl when Im out and about and instead of making a movie or even saying HI I become shy/stalkerish and just allow myself to loose control of the situation and nothing happens. 2. I meet a girl and really like her but I end up as the "happy go lucky/good guy/best friend/etc" - For some reason when I approach a girl after meeting her in what ever way or another I end up as just the friend and nothing more. "Don't see you like that", etc. Those are the typical reactions. Im a very open guy with very little mystery left and I know that is probably part of it. 3. I feel like I try and rush things. 4. Once in Friend Zone, is it too late? ANYTHING you can offer as advice means a lot to me. |
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| Author: | Savlon [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:18 pm ] |
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Hmmm anything i can offer you?.... ok here's one... MAN THE FUCK UP lol! stop being a bitch... sort your shit out and be the man... real men go for what they want no questions asked lol... seriously man start taking control of situations... be a leader and dont be afraid of what anyone thinks of you... who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks... they're no one to you  sorry if it sounds harsh... just trying to get my point across 
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| Author: | rystar [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:02 pm ] |
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Also keep sexual tension going. If you talk or do things sexual girls will think of you that way. If your a friend and don't kino or flirt or anything then the girl will always place you in the friendzone. I've quickly learnt this. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:07 pm ] |
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If you kino escalate properly then the k and f close will just happen naturally rather than seeming like a big deal. Learn your kino escalation ladder and make sure you get 2-3 touches within 1 minute with EVERY girl you EVER meet from now on. |
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| Author: | musiclaproducer [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 4:12 pm ] |
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Once in Friend Zone for quite a while....is it too late? |
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| Author: | smooth99 [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 4:51 pm ] |
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Quote: Once in Friend Zone for quite a while....is it too late?
nope but it does mean you have a job on your hands.this might be hard but you need to freeze her out of your life for 3 months + depending on how deep your in. once that times past then you need to kino escalate rapidly and build up sexual tension. |
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