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| Author: | Mind Hacker [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 2:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I think I'm getting played - help! |
When I proposed defining our relationship as a LTR she says it's not a good idea to set up rules for the relationship, because she thinks it's special the way it is and she's afraid of messing it up. So, I don't know if I should give her an ultimatum for choosing what kind of relationship she wants or if I just keep the way it is and keep seeing other girls. Looks like she likes me and wants to keep me around, but it's very weird that doesn't want to define it. What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:48 pm ] |
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I thought it was the chicks who always try to 'define' relationships. Instead of playing word games, why not just move forward and behave in a way that is conducive for the type of relationship you want? Her reaction to this will be a more accurate answer than anything that comes out of her mouth. |
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| Author: | headsmoke [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:01 am ] |
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You can always just start caring less. Make her feel like shes losing you. That way she'll try harder to get you back and you can be in control again. |
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